"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to get rid of the excess fat?

yungahdubz

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I'm 5"10 and 135lbs.

One of my goals is to get upto 160lbs, still a long way to go.

The problem is, even though i've gained weight, a lot of it is fat.

I wouldn't have even noticed that i've gained fat because my abs look better than they did before i gained the weight, but my trousers beg to differ.

I can only wear 1 pair of school trousers now, as they are the only ones that fit me, all the others are too tight. Lots of my jeans are starting to feel a little snug around the waist aswel.

I need to get rid of this excess podge because my clothes jut arent fitting.

Im not looking to lose too much, as im still trying to bulk, but enough for my school trousers to fit again, how would i go about doing this? I'm thinking HIIT, but i'd like others opinions
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rampage1

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135lbs any fat that you have will be a saving grace to prevent you from looking like a skeleton! my advice is to wise up and keeping eating big!
 

yungahdubz

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I know im skinny. Its not that i want to lose the fat, its that i have to. School clothes cost money - money that i havent got.

I dont want to wear just one pair of school trousers for the rest of the year, thats why i bought more than one pair.

I asked for advice on how to lose fat.
 

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well if you want to get up to 160lbs you are going to need to get new clothes anyway! however, if you do insist losing weight then would guess it wouldnt be too hard given your stats and age! just cut down on the calories (particularly carbs) and up the cardio! but you will compromise your muscle gain, which imo is not a good idea
 

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How to get rid of the excess fat?

My recommendation for losing fat is always to emulate what fighters do. Intense cardio plus a diet of mostly lean protein and vegetables. This is not difficult in theory, but most people lack the internal fortitude to actually do it.

Some of my diet is discussed here is you are looking for more specifics.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136355

fwiw, I am currently having the opposite problem as you - all of my pants are falling off. It was not always this way; I've been flabby and out of shape for much of my life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yungahdubz

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Cheers Bible_blet and Rampage
 

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wow 5'10 and 135...and saying it's all fat and no muscle? That adds up to no muscle, not necessarily all fat. So i say just eat big and lift big.
 
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