"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get rid of ingrown hairs?

sonick182

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I dont have ingrown hair on my face, but i find on my legs i get them, mainly on the knee, its annoying...

Im pretty sure its ingrown hair. They're like little bumps dark inside, sometimes if i squeeze it, it breaks the skin and the hair comes out.

How do i go about getting rid of the ingrown hair?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blong1068

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Do you shave your legs? I read that for ingrown hairs on your face, use a toothbrush and go over your face gently. I haven't tried it, i rarely ever get ingrown hairs.
 

djray

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Ive had a few on my face, ignored them for a few weeks, then thought fvck it. So i grabbed a needle and went under the skin and teetered it down under the hair and pulled out and the hair came out it was like an inch long.

It may sound extreme but it worked.

any other ideas?
 

OddTech

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I don't have too much, but this is what I read from "Men's Health."

Wash with an antibaterical soap and follow with a witch hazel-based astringent. The soap willl kill the germs hanging out on your ingrown follicles, and the astringent will help close the pores to keep new germs from getting in.

And if that doesn't work: have fun with the lasers. Diode laser treatments are able to destroy the hair follicles. Expect to pay about $400 for each zap session.
 

sonick182

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I dont shave my legs... ill try that toothbrush thing sometime.. or maybe exfoliate them.. thatll prolly remove the excess skin and let the hairs grow
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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