"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mazeman11

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This is not a thread about getting a girl...it's about getting rid of a girl.

I found out today a girl I have been sleeping with has been lying about many things. She is very untrustworthy and I need her gone.

Exactly how do you distance girls and brush them away without having them go psycho on you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KontrollerX

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Why get rid of her?

So she's not girlfriend material.

Big deal.

You can keep fvcking her and look for a better prospect on the side and ditch her when you secure the new branch.

As for getting rid of her now if you really must and avoiding any negative pitfalls should she choose to go psycho on you?

Well just make sure you don't give her any goodbye sex as if she's fvcked in the head enough she might go to the cops, lie and say you raped her and provide them with some residual DNA evidence to prove it.

Also before you breakup with her make sure to get all of your stuff out of her place if any of it is there and save any voice messages, emails, letters, pictures of you two happy together and indicating you were in a seemingly happy relationship together if she tries to go to the cops using the "you're a random creepy stalker" card.

Also if you have any humiliating videos lying around of you nutting on her face or anything else embarassing she might not want to get out to the public this may also serve as a deterrent to her going psycho on you.

Unless you got with a borderline or bipolar or a schizo I think you really have nothing to worry about if you just pull the cowardly chick breakup tactic and just stop contacting her.

If you don't want it to be that cold and simple though just leave a little note that indicates you know about her lies and cheating and that you two are through.

Straight and to the point.

No scolding her or trying to make her feel sorry or bad about what she did.

Thats what a chump would do or a morality crew AFC and it will not have the desired effect anyway since the chick will never be sorry but rather get off on having effected you so deeply.
 

Mazeman11

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KontrollerX said:
Why get rid of her?

So she's not girlfriend material.

Big deal.

You can keep fvcking her and look for a better prospect on the side and ditch her when you secure the new branch.

As for getting rid of her now if you really must and avoiding any negative pitfalls should she choose to go psycho on you?

Well just make sure you don't give her any goodbye sex as if she's fvcked in the head enough she might go to the cops, lie and say you raped her and provide them with some residual DNA evidence to prove it.

Also before you breakup with her make sure to get all of your stuff out of her place if any of it is there and save any voice messages, emails, letters, pictures of you two happy together and indicating you were in a seemingly happy relationship together if she tries to go to the cops using the "you're a random creepy stalker" card.

Also if you have any humiliating videos lying around of you nutting on her face or anything else embarassing she might not want to get out to the public this may also serve as a deterrent to her going psycho on you.

Unless you got with a borderline or bipolar or a schizo I think you really have nothing to worry about if you just pull the cowardly chick breakup tactic and just stop contacting her.

If you don't want it to be that cold and simple though just leave a little note that indicates you know about her lies and cheating and that you two are through.

Straight and to the point.

No scolding her or trying to make her feel sorry or bad about what she did.

Thats what a chump would do or a morality crew AFC and it will not have the desired effect anyway since the chick will never be sorry but rather get off on having effected you so deeply.
Even if she's not a GF, I don't really want to sleep with someone I don't trust.
 

KontrollerX

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"Even if she's not a GF, I don't really want to sleep with someone I don't trust."

None of them are 100% trustworthy.

Just wear a condom everytime.
 

King Turi

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No girl is 100% trustworthy.

Already been said, just saying it again because it's true.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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john siegal

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Why not just tell her the truth;...You're Gay!

"Ah Honey...i have something to tell you....I'm really a Homosexual!"

:nervous:
 

Tony T

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LOL!

Yeah...that would definitely work.

Haha...:yes:

john siegal said:
Why not just tell her the truth;...You're Gay!

"Ah Honey...i have something to tell you....I'm really a Homosexual!"

:nervous:
 

Cure

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drop her asap, dishonest chicks are a nightmare. Dont sleep with her again, dont contact her, if she contacts you explain you dont want to be "together" anymore but dont be rude or confrontational about it. dont be forced to defend yourself or justify your position/opinion.
and dont give in, whatever. Other advice re keeping photos/voicemails etc for a while is good as well.
 

jophil28

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Mazeman11 said:
This is not a thread about getting a girl...it's about getting rid of a girl.

I found out today a girl I have been sleeping with has been lying about many things. She is very untrustworthy and I need her gone.

Exactly how do you distance girls and brush them away without having them go psycho on you?
Good for you for placing a higher value on honesty than a regular supply of pvssy. That's masculinity at its best.

How do you get rid of her ?

This is your dilemma. IF you lie to her in an attempt to turn her off, you are using Lying tactics. Isn't lying why you want her gone?
Using deception is a feminine strategy.
Tell her DIRECTLY that you do not want to see her again and not to contact you.
Tell her that, and act accordingly. Eventually she will leave you alone.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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fertileTurtle

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Tell her you just found out you have aids. Be convincing.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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The answer is simple... You tell her you dont want to be with her anymore! Or you can just never call back or see her again.

Its not that hard to get rid of a girl. Unless, if she may be in your social circle.

But, whats the big deal? She is not your girlfriend. Why do you care if she tells you the truth or not. Maybe, you even lied to her just to get the pvssy.

Either way if you dont trust her... Dont fvck her.
 

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Bang her one more time, pull out and squirt all over her face and say "oh yeah how do you like that you lying hore bag?" Works every time.
 

Jblitz59

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haha going AFC isn't the most manly way, but i'm pretty sure that will turn her off quicker than a dead body (unless she is into that)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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