"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to get rid of attetion thoughts orsomething?:p

Sjakapai

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yeah, I dont know what u guys call it, but im a attetion*****:p I

exampel: It was a guy who stoled my iPod, I knew who it was, so i went up to him and asked him to give me my ipod back. He said he didnt have it, but i didnt belive him(i actually saw that he stoled mu ipod in my classrom) so i kept asking him that, and started to check his pocket or what it calls, and his backpack.. but didnt find any ipod.. soo he said: Do i have to hit you booooyyy?
when he said that i started to think, if he hits me then i will get some attation *weee..* so i just said yeah come on:p it wasnt so hard, but I pretended it was hard so people started to run up to me and asked "are u alright hun?, come with me:p" etc i said "yeah", then people started to yell at him.. "what was that for, u stupid dumbf*k" He got the whole school against him.. and later i got my ipod and he begged me to be friends.. He have only 2-3 friends so:p

actually i get atteinin normarly.. but everytime i want some MORE attetion i do something that can attract girls to jump on me.. and it works:p but i dont want any attation from people.. i just want to be a unknown guy

what kind of guy am i?.. looser huH?:p jupp **** have to change that.. how doi change?..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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