"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to get rid of attetion thoughts orsomething?:p

Sjakapai

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yeah, I dont know what u guys call it, but im a attetion*****:p I

exampel: It was a guy who stoled my iPod, I knew who it was, so i went up to him and asked him to give me my ipod back. He said he didnt have it, but i didnt belive him(i actually saw that he stoled mu ipod in my classrom) so i kept asking him that, and started to check his pocket or what it calls, and his backpack.. but didnt find any ipod.. soo he said: Do i have to hit you booooyyy?
when he said that i started to think, if he hits me then i will get some attation *weee..* so i just said yeah come on:p it wasnt so hard, but I pretended it was hard so people started to run up to me and asked "are u alright hun?, come with me:p" etc i said "yeah", then people started to yell at him.. "what was that for, u stupid dumbf*k" He got the whole school against him.. and later i got my ipod and he begged me to be friends.. He have only 2-3 friends so:p

actually i get atteinin normarly.. but everytime i want some MORE attetion i do something that can attract girls to jump on me.. and it works:p but i dont want any attation from people.. i just want to be a unknown guy

what kind of guy am i?.. looser huH?:p jupp **** have to change that.. how doi change?..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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