How to get rid of a heavy heart

[Bayne05]

Broke up with this girl a few months ago. Ever since then I've had a heavy heart and I can't seem to shake it off. I deleted everything that would remind me of her, met other women, took up some hobbies but it won't go away.

I've never in my life had this experience, never had a struggle moving on from my previous girlfriends. I thought I'd move on easily with this one but it gets worse each month, it's starting to affect my performance in bed with the women I lay.

I know this means I had strong feelings for this girl but it's over and I want move on but my mind just won't let me. So I'm here to ask for advice from those who've been in the same situation, maybe you might tell me something I haven't tried yet.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Broke up with this girl a few months ago. Ever since then I've had a heavy heart and I can't seem to shake it off. I deleted everything that would remind me of her, met other women, took up some hobbies but it won't go away.

I've never in my life had this experience, never had a struggle moving on from my previous girlfriends. I thought I'd move on easily with this one but it gets worse each month, it's starting to affect my performance in bed with the women I lay.

I know this means I had strong feelings for this girl but it's over and I want move on but my mind just won't let me. So I'm here to ask for advice from those who've been in the same situation, maybe you might tell me something I haven't tried yet.

New puzzy with someone attractive enough who digs you.

 

[HyenaPrince]

The only variable I see in this equation is distance. Yes, you have put some distance between her, being point A and the opposite pole, being point B. B equals infinite, obviously. But the problem here is, that you haven't covered enough distance. You have to increase it. In your case it is apparently not enough to just delete stuff, pursue new hobbies and meet new women. You need to find something that finally catapults you so far away that you can't even see point A anymore and don't even know how she looks, how her voice sounds and what it felt like doing stuff with her and being with her.

Maybe you should actually increase the physical distance. Go for a long trip. Leave the country and absorb a completely new culture. This will definitely help.

 

[corrector]

Broke up with this girl a few months ago. Ever since then I've had a heavy heart and I can't seem to shake it off. I deleted everything that would remind me of her, met other women, took up some hobbies but it won't go away.

I've never in my life had this experience, never had a struggle moving on from my previous girlfriends. I thought I'd move on easily with this one but it gets worse each month, it's starting to affect my performance in bed with the women I lay.

I know this means I had strong feelings for this girl but it's over and I want move on but my mind just won't let me. So I'm here to ask for advice from those who've been in the same situation, maybe you might tell me something I haven't tried yet.

Time heals all wounds. Spend time seeking Jesus and see what God's plan is for your life.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Time heals all wounds. Spend time seeking Jesus and see what God's plan is for your life.

Him staying away from the world of women will have his last and most recent memories of women always be of her. He must add new memories with women.

 

[corrector]

Him staying away from the world of women will have his last and most recent memories of women always be of her. He must add new memories with women.

He said he met women and slept with them in his post and this is even affecting his performance in bed. Clearly this is a spiritual problem.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

He said he met women and slept with them in his post and this is even affecting his performance in bed. Clearly this is a spiritual problem.

Sometimes it is.