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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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How to get rid of a fat gut?

JDA70

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Hi :)

I have a little bit of a gut and I tried to get rid of it
by walking 2- 4 miles a day for something like 3 months
and nothing happened. I didn't lose anything.
I also used to ride a bike alot at the same time as well
but that didn't get rid of it.

Any tried and true methods that will get rid of this?


Thanks for any help.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What does your daily food intake look like?

What happens is a lot of people do the jogging work and neglect the kitchen work. They go out and run themselves into the ground, work up an appetite, and come home just to eat the wrong foods and render the walking/jogging useless. It's a 2 steps forward 1 step backward type deal. To get your engine running on all cylinders, you have to balance your weights/cardio/nutrition.
 

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Diet is #1. Eating well and doing no exercise is much better than exercising and eating poorly. Combine both a good diet and exercise and you'll be good.
 

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JDA70 said:
Hi :)

I have a little bit of a gut and I tried to get rid of it
by walking 2- 4 miles a day for something like 3 months
and nothing happened. I didn't lose anything.
I also used to ride a bike alot at the same time as well
but that didn't get rid of it.

Any tried and true methods that will get rid of this?


Thanks for any help.
ive taken up jogging and my midsection is getting leaner. its crazy how jogging / running changes your body. heck, my hair is suddenly getting thicker and healthier looking (not that it was bad before, but now its looking like it did when i was 19).

ive always hated running, but since i quit smoking i forced myself to do it. now i love it. its damn hard but it really transforms my body in ways that no other cardio does.
 

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Diet

My diet is this mixed through out the month.
=================
Mashed Potatoes.
Mixed Fruit.
Salads.
Apple.
Peanut Butter on Wheat Toast.
Gatorade.
Crangrape Juice.
2% Milk.
Rice.
Rice Cheks.
Broccoli.
Brussel Sprouts.
Green Beans.
Peas.
Boneless Turkey.
Boneless Chicken.
Boneless Pork Chops.
Stove Top Stuffing.
Mac And Cheese.
Pop - Caffeine Free Pepsi.
Pancakes with Eggs and Sauage.
Pizza.
Soft Tacos.
Sliced Cheese
Speghetti with Garlic Toast.
Cauliflower.
Mixed Vegetables.
Tunafish.
Tuna Salad.
Mcdonald's Big Mac and Fries.
=================
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JDA70 said:
My diet is this mixed through out the month.
=================
Mashed Potatoes.
Mixed Fruit.
Salads.
Apple.
Peanut Butter on Wheat Toast.
Gatorade.
Crangrape Juice.
2% Milk.
Rice.
Rice Cheks.
Broccoli.
Brussel Sprouts.
Green Beans.
Peas.
Boneless Turkey.
Boneless Chicken.
Boneless Pork Chops.
Stove Top Stuffing.
Mac And Cheese.
Pop - Caffeine Free Pepsi.
Pancakes with Eggs and Sauage.
Pizza.
Soft Tacos.
Sliced Cheese
Speghetti with Garlic Toast.
Cauliflower.
Mixed Vegetables.
Tunafish.
Tuna Salad.
Mcdonald's Big Mac and Fries.
=================

There's your problem. You wanna lose the gut, lose the McDonald's. Pizza. Mac And Cheese etc. etc., doesn't matter how much your walking you need a much stricter diet than that.
 

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most of your diet is trash. if you want to lose bodyfat in a big way at age 37 and keep it off, you need to explore more meat & veggie combos with an emphasis on the sprouts, brocolli, cauliflower & green beans.

the rice, pasta, chex cereal, french fries, pancakes, stove top, gaorade & pop must go immediately. all are terrible refined carb sources full of starch & sugar your aging body isn't prepared to burn off.

add weightlifting to your exercise.

add fish and/or fish oil to your diet for the omega-3 fats.

there's much more but these are the first steps...
 

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You need to setup an organized eating plan
 

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I got a couple questions myself about diet

I keep hearing about these starchy carbs that u should stay away from at all costs.. rice, pasta, potatoes.. should i not take em at all? or just not b4 sleeping (dinner)?

Is it okay to eat a mcdonalds like once every 2 weeks (same with pizza)?

Also i eat a full plate of salad 5 days a week.. is that enuff?

Im 16 and trying to cut up btw.. i got some muscle/weight (more muscle than fat tho :D) when i started eating pizza late at night 4 times a week and doing some lifting of course..
 

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Yup, what everyone has said already.
Half your diet looks pretty shoddy.

Plus, approx what % of your intake
is pizza and McDonald's and other fast
food?

Layoff the pop altogether, that crap,
even the diet, is just poison. Replace it
with water, tea...you'll find that
you can get used to drinking water with
meals really easily. Minimize the fruit
juice too, that stuff is not the greatest.

Seems like you do good with the
veggies but I think you should snack
more on fruits and nuts...personally, I
munch on pistachios and almonds with
grapes and berries thrown in for variety.

Cardio is fine, but you need to increase
your muscle mass as well, especially at
your ripe old age :whistle:

Lastly...do you drink? Beer, especially?
You didn't list any alcohol and a lot of
people don't count that as food but in heavy
doses at our age, that stuff just
adds inches to the waist.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Throttle

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Chase12 said:
Im 16 and trying to cut up btw.. i got some muscle/weight (more muscle than fat tho :D) when i started eating pizza late at night 4 times a week and doing some lifting of course..
there's a world of difference between a 39 year old trying to lose significant fat and a 16 y.o. trying to "cut up"...

at 16, your hormones are primed for the best muscle growth of your life. you can keep the trashy carbs & add bulk all around, you can trash the carbs and cut up, or you can put together a real diet & program that will add muscle and slowly peel away excess fat. choice is yours.
 
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