How to get responses on Match?

[Dictatorsaurus]

Ladies get bombarded with emails and winks on match.com. How do they make their pick? I'm sure a lot of those guys are good looking but you can't possible show interest in them all. What grabs their attention?

 

[pimpdatass]

Thats a good question..

I am good looking, been told many times, really fit. I dont do match but have myspace and ratemybody...you cant just go by looks, you need to talk about **** from their profile, otherwize they wont bother to reply.

Problem is I am a lazy ass, so I dont want to bother with all that crap....I write one or two lines at most, most dont reply but I get a few...internet dating is not really my thing, so I thats enough for me.

 

[Sargeholic]

Weird thing happened to me here. I would get 2-3 winks a day, 30-50% responses on emails, and then wham...nothing. Never get a wink, never get an email, never get a response. Been like this for a couple months. Same exact photos and profile. Don't know what gives.

 

[Dictatorsaurus]

It's not that I'm into the internet dating thing. I just don't go to bars or drink. I have different interest from most people and rarely meeting people.

I'm pretty good looking too but still don't hear back even if I send a decent message commenting about their interests or profile.

 

[pimpdatass]

Yeah, this internet dating is some weird crap.

Then again think about it...if the girl is way hot, she is probably getting 20 messages a day! A lot of these chicks just like the ego boost, they dont have much intention of hooking up....it just makes them feel good to get all those replies. Thats what I think.

 

[pimpdatass]

Originally posted by Sargeholic
Weird thing happened to me here. I would get 2-3 winks a day, 30-50% responses on emails, and then wham...nothing. Never get a wink, never get an email, never get a response. Been like this for a couple months. Same exact photos and profile. Don't know what gives.

I hear ya.

I was talking to a really cute girl, we talked on the phone even, had a fun conversation, continued to e-mail and talked about meeting.. All of the sudden she stops e-mailing me. Really weird, I dont get it either.

 

[Dictatorsaurus]

Some of those ladies are very beautiful. I bet they get hit on A LOT!
The odds are stacked against us.

 

[qweretyuiopas]

What do u guys mean by 2-3 winks a day?

 

[Blackdragon5095]

I want to go on personal sites myself. Which are good sites ??

Would anyone help me setup a good profile ??


anyone ?

 

[Dictatorsaurus]

It happens to me sometimes. I get lots of emails for a period of time then all of a sudden they just stop.
You gotta understand though that she's contacing way more guys than you are contacting girls. To them it's easier to choose. Thats why I think chicks should pay for the match service.

 

[BigFoot]

Basically, don't waste your time with the online stuff. For many guys, it's an excuse to avoid confronting the real issues they have (like shyness). And as people have pointed out, the odds are not in your favor . The few attractive women that sign on to these sites are bombarded with responses. Learn to operate in the real world.