How to get past small talk?

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

RichardTheFrog

Banned

Jun 2, 2018

Over the past week or so, I've gone to strip clubs numerous times and bar hopped downtown once. I've had so many conversations with different girls that I can't even remember them all.

Topics ranging from our personal back stories, history, the time I lived homeless, doing a bunch of acid, flipping houses, starting businesses, my d1ck implant and plastic surgeries (one of the strippers actually asked me to show her before and after pictures of the plastic surgery), and a million other topics that I can't remember.

But I've done this many, many times. It goes nowhere except just having a conversation.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.