How to get past makin out

[DJinTraining06]

I had posted a couple days ago about a 2nd date i had where i went to dinner with a girl and after dinner she said she wanted to go back to my place and hang out. So after watchin a movie we made out for like 2 hrs off and on, laying on each other, lots of touching. I tried goin under her shirt doin some squeezing, up her back, rubbing her leg. She didnt seem to mind at all when i did that, she just started kissin me more intensely. But she wasnt really reciprocating with the feeling. She just was rubbin my back a lil when kissing. So i didnt know how to progress the situation further.

What else cold i have done without goin to far on 2nd date? she totally didnt care that i was squeezin her melons and crap, so i dunno, was she just expecitng me to make more moves? Should i have taken her shirt off and crap like that? Or was she just not ready. cuz after a whille of making out she started sayin she had to go soon cuz it was almost 2 am and she lvives bout 30 mins away. I told her she could crash at my place but she insisted. I wonder if she either 1. wasnt ready, 2. was tired of waiting for me to get more physical, or 3. just tired cuz it was 2 am. I cant see makin more of a move then i did, i groped alot. She didnt seem to mind, but didnt seem to wanna reciprocate either. Whatya think? My guess is she was just nervous and didnt wanan be a slut yet.

 

[edmond]

What was your kino like before you took her home, what were her reactions?

 

[DJinTraining06]

What was your kino like before you took her home, what were her reactions?

She drove home herself. She was in my area looking at apartments, so i gave her my adress and she came to me and then we took my car out. So she had to drive home herself. She seemed really into me cuz as she was walkin out the door she kissed me like a quick peck, then did like funny cutish kinda thing where she pecked 4 or 5 more times and laughed a lil, then i we walked down the stairs and she went in for another kiss on her own a quick one also. She prob just want ready right?

Just a side note to give u a lil more information, she was very stif on my couch the first 2 hrs watchin the movie i didnt seem to have an in to kiss her, but after the move she said she was cold so i said id warm her up and i put my arm aroudn her then i got up for a second (forgot what for) and when i got back to the couch she said so i thoguht u were gonna keep me warm, so then we made out for like 1-2 hrs lots of tongue, lip biting etc, and thats when i started goin under the shirt and stuff.

 

[edmond]

Next time instead of watching TV, take her straight to your bedroom, which should have a nice atmosphere, scented candles, and nice wine, if possible prepare a hot bath or shower for both of you. Do not grope or try to rush her, just gently caress and stroke her skin all over except her most sensitive areas and see how you progress.
Some girls need more time to get with the flow, so NO TV.
PS: Switch off phone.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Next time instead of watching TV, take her straight to your bedroom, which should have a nice atmosphere, scented candles, and nice wine, if possible prepare a hot bath or shower for both of you. Do not grope or try to rush her, just gently caress and stroke her skin all over except her most sensitive areas and see how you progress.
Some girls need more time to get with the flow, so NO TV.
PS: Switch off phone.

nah she aint the kinda girl whod like that, she would be totally creeped over that sorta thing plus shes only 24 and im 25 and live with my mom. My mom was away that night. Unfortunately my bed wasnt made and was full of clothes. She saw that, i wonder if thats what turned her off to my bedroom. Prob a dumb question, lol. I just had no clue shed wanna come back to my house or else i woulda cleaned up. Not long ago i went on a 3rd date with a girl and asked her if she wanted to come to my place after we had gone out, and she looked at me like yea yea yea i know wat ur thinkin, and she looked like she was thinkin bout it and said no not tonite i dont know u that well or some crap like that. So thats why i didnt even bother cleanin up this time.

 

[Lost1]

What else cold i have done without goin to far on 2nd date? she totally didnt care that i was squeezin her melons and crap, so i dunno, was she just expecitng me to make more moves?

HAHA melons is an awesome word for b00bs. I got no advice sorry.

 

[edmond]

Just take it easy then, some girl need more time.