"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to get over this

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So I found out I was cheated on by this girl. Anyway, I HATE her.. really.... lots of personal reasons here, but I seriously HATE her. And.. shes a co-worker. Anyway to deal with this without.. you know, cussing her out, getting fired... etc??

I have a back up job, but I don't want that to be my only job. I currently work at two different places.

I saw her tonight, immediately I walked away, veins were popping out of my neck and arms, my face was red, and the "guys" tried to calm me down. This is just from seeing her... damn, I really do hate her for what she has done.

I thought I had been AFC or something, and thats why she left me, but I wasn't... She's just a slut. I should of listened to the warnings... anyway, I got to deal with this but I need serious help.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Think about it this way..will you let this bother you when your dead? Probably not..the sooner you move on, the less time you waste on thinking about her..
Find something that occupies your thoughts..some hobby or something..
 
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Can't you just cuss her out outside of the work environment?
 
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This story has been told thousands of times on this site!! When will you guys embrace reality? When you are dead? Is she your wife? No? If not, then the hor owes you nothing!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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damn that sucks, i wouldnt want to be in your shoes! i know how it feels. since you have 2 jobs, you may want to quit the other one and stay away from her. time heals all wounds!!
 
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the crazy thing is...you never know if you are being cheated on unless they tell you or you find out. You put yourself out there and you get burned sometimes. Once something like this happens, you appreciate this and honestly believe that there is someone better for you...

and obviously there is someone better if she has cheated. be glad you didnt waste even more time on this chic.

but moving forward...dont be blind in your relationships...realize that women just like men are always gonna find other ppl attractive, flirt, and so on. Find what YOU have to offer that no one else can and half the battle is won.

GOOD LUCK!
 
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