"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to get over someone!

KingCobra

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This probably works better if you have been in a LTR of over a year but i have found the best way to get over someone is to make a list of their pro's and cons . I did this and there was a massive 14 cons and 2 pros! I had to ask myself why was i finding it hard to get over someone that i found this many problems with. This puts perspective on things and you then realise this person really wasn't making you happy but the concept of having someone all the time in a relationship was what was making you happy.

so make a list if you are finding it hard to get over someone and you may be suprised with the outcome but you have to be totally honest with yourself when making it, not just bitter etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sir Juanalot

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I've said it before, the quickest way to get over someone is to get under someone else :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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