"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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After breaking up with my gf, I have been feeling pretty sh*tty. No more sex, no more sleeping together, no more going out together, etc...sometimes it really sucks!

So how the hell do I get over this crappy feeling? And have you guys who've broken up with a gf felt this way b4?

Thanks
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The best way to get over someone is to get under someone.
 

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It also makes me feel sh*tty thinking of her f*cking or going out with someone else. I don't know why, but it does! Maybe I am still a bit jealous.
 

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Well my friend, the ONLY way to go over a girl, is to replace her. Thats right, the ONLY way to get this girl out of your head, is to go and get another. Think about it, you still want affection, you still want some azz, you still want some tits.

The lonely feeling you are feeling now, is because your tits and azz and puzzy is gone.

Replace, my friend, and you wont be like the AFCs, who when thier puzzy walks out, they, chase.
 

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The best way to get over someone is to get under someone.
Yeah .. if you're a chick! It would be better put like this:

The best way to get over someone is behind someone

You poor sap .. it will take awhile (even months). How did the break occurr .. think you were posting on it but can't recollect?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the best way to get over someone is to get on top of someone.....

under someone and behind someone sound kind of gay guys...haha
 

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Not if you're doing her Dawgy style! You don't want to be looking at her face when you're using her like the trailer trash that she is .. lol. It would be too respectful .. ya know.
 

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Don't forget your mates. Some of the best night out drinking I've had have been one of my mates has been dumped.
 

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The best way to get over somebody is to find mental strenght in yourself. Once you've conditioned yourself to be in a relationship, even after you leave, it's difficult to get your mind in the right spot. You have to build your mental toughness, allow yourself to think about her and your relationship, then REALLY think about it.

Think about the reasons behind your break up, think about how one or both of you were unhappy together, think about how you longed to get out and do other things and see other people. Replay those thoughts in your mind over and over again and your feelings and wants for this person will subside greatly.

Obviously time heals all wounds, so it's gonna be a little while before you're completely over it. What always helps me getting over a girl is spending time at the bar because that's my natural enviroment and I can talk to people about things other then my ex. You should spend time in a place that makes you feel comfortable and takes your mind off of things.
 

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see this is why you have more then one girl. when sh!t goes wrong and you have to let one go, you have others to fall back on, and there's no awkward period of singleness.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I went to her place later today to drop some stuff off, and there she is chilling with some other prick.

Let me tell you why I think it makes me feel like sh*t. Just a month or so ago, we had all kinds of great plans together...all the awesome things we were going to do during the summer. And she would usually bring these things up. She acted like she "loved" me, and I ended up getting emotionally attached to her because she really did seem like we were one hell of a pair together.

And then I finally realize that all of that was f*cking bullsh*t, and that it was just immature infatuation!

So all that "love" and all those plans went to smoke, and now she's just off with some other guy.



If I could go to a bar, I would. Unfortuanetly, I am 18. Do you guys think there are some other good places for just chilling and getting my mind off this? Because really, it's eating up my mind.
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
I went to her place later today to drop some stuff off, and there she is chilling with some other prick.


Ouch! I truly feel for you man. This is probably why I'm afraid of emotional attachment.


Seriously though, the only way to get over her is to get back in the field.


Be easy brother.
 

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It also makes me feel sh*tty thinking of her f*cking or going out with someone else. I don't know why, but it does! Maybe I am still a bit jealous.
Oh yeah I feel that bro, still feel that actually. While you get home early from a **** night out and watch repeats of the simpsons you still think she's out there moaning under some other dudes bod begging for more kock. Jealousy is a kunt of a feeling. If it helps I still feel it too. We're fvcked. :down:
 

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So how the hell do I get over this crappy feeling
In my days of jealousy and attachment I was of the opinion that sleeping with her best friend was the best remedy.

You may wish to rethink if her best friend is a guy or a horse though...it's really up to you...
 

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the way I try to get over is going to clubs, talking to other girls, going over all my male friend's houses and just watch Chapelle Show and South Park and laugh my ass off

it's been more than a month but I have to admit that I still think about her a lot

not as much but I still dream about us being togeher and stuff

I keep on thinking that she'll come back to me even though I talk to two other girls right now

....make it three other girls

Is it normal that I still think about us being together someday????

Did any of you went through this as well??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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