How to get over a girl

[bluemanson]

Hi guys

im trying to get over a chick (a friend of mine) i see alot.. I dont have a problem meeting girls anf doing what ever or going all the way but this girl is in my circle of friends and and she is hot (9) and she knows it. I made a move on her and it backfired and ive tried againg but failed so now i wana move on but we still kind of friends. but when im with other girls i im all good but when im at home or sleeping and doing nothing, i start to think of her and when i see her my stomach aches like butterfies and stuff but i know nothing will come between us as she is not interested yet we speak everyday. I tried ignoring her but it just doesnt work cos like i said she in my circle of friends and she is always around with my other friends so it is really hard to ignore her. I dont phone or email her. so the only way i get to see her is when she with my friends.

I dont know if this is love or infatuation cos i want her cos i cant get her type of thing

Please help if you know of any ways. I dont want to feel this way whenever i see her

Thanks

 

[Wortakrobat]

I made the same experience, and here is what you should do:

From now on, you avoid her. Stop talking to her, if you see her, just go away. If she tries to talk to you, try not to answer. If she should ask you why you're so rude, say the following: "I prefer talking to people whos IQ is higher than their age." She will HATE you, and you'll never have to ask you again if she likes you or not. Trust me, it feels a lot better!

Take it as a fact: If she would love you, she would try to get you. You love her, and that's why you're upset when you think about her. (Love has the same effect on a human as cocaine, it causes an addiction. If you can't spend time with the person you love, it starts to hurt. You're a "love-junkie".)

Have you ever seen the movie "good advice" with Charlie Sheen? There's this scene where he gives an advice to a women which is in the same situation as you are. He says "the best way to get over an old love, is to get under a new one." If you ask me, he's damn right! Forget your old girl, **** a new one, and life is great again

 

[bluemanson]

thanks but i have tried to ignore her, but sometimes when we in a group and she asks a question or what ever then i try not to answer but some questions hust has to be answered lol. but im gona keep on trying cos i dont want to feel this way over her.

Also i have been with other girls but they dont makke me feel the same or close or even better... i think the only way for me to get over her is to get someone hotter than her which i suppose could work,,,, I hope

 

[RFish]

Actually I wouldn't just avoid her.

I don't think it is a good choice because you are revealing how you are affected by her. In a group chat or what you may just contribute but remember she is just another lady so you don't have to pay special attention to her.

My advise?

Be polite and act normal, just don't give her the attention you used to. Beware she will start coming back to you for it sometime later though. But only for ego boost.

Oh and to answer your question this is as you said, infatuation. Just take a break from life and chill out. Get a few drinks play some games do some sports with your buddies. You will be fine

 

[Scars]

Best way to get over a girl.. find a new one.

 

[bluemanson]

i know SCARS but it is really difficult cos i she is really hot and i have been with other girls but she always there especially when im doing nothing ......DAMN