"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to get over a big error? Move on or fight on?

AverageHero

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Long story short, I drunk texted a girl I work with. The texts were in response to the huge amount of flirting she does with me, although she flirts with everyone I suppose. The texts were very forward, and looking to meet up as soon as possible. I got no reply (it was late at night). I text the next day to say I was drunk and sorry about them. In work the next day she was very cold with me. I should just move on, shouldn't I?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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You messed up when you texted her you werre drunk the next day. Just move on.
 

st_99

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Whenever you make an obvious error the only thing left to do is get back to doing what is right asap.

In your case just pretend it never happened, no more apology or wondering how she feels about it or if she hates you or whatever. Just communicate and act like it never happened and go from there. Thats all you can do.
 
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