"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to get over a big error? Move on or fight on?

AverageHero

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Long story short, I drunk texted a girl I work with. The texts were in response to the huge amount of flirting she does with me, although she flirts with everyone I suppose. The texts were very forward, and looking to meet up as soon as possible. I got no reply (it was late at night). I text the next day to say I was drunk and sorry about them. In work the next day she was very cold with me. I should just move on, shouldn't I?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

PrettyBoyAJ

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You messed up when you texted her you werre drunk the next day. Just move on.
 

st_99

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Whenever you make an obvious error the only thing left to do is get back to doing what is right asap.

In your case just pretend it never happened, no more apology or wondering how she feels about it or if she hates you or whatever. Just communicate and act like it never happened and go from there. Thats all you can do.
 
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