How to get out of the "creep zone?"

[mrgoodstuff]

Single Mothers aren't promoted anywhere outside the 1st world because the welfare state to provide for them doesn't exist. Only in the 1st world is it not shameful to be a single mom.

A female I know who likes to keep her options open, who has two children of her own said that if they cut off child support for single mothers, there would be a lot less of them. Currently in our society we have women who are left behind by a father, and another group which takes advantage of the system, they entrap an unaware male to deposit sperm and take money from him for 20 years.

 

[LiveFreeX]

My wife actually came from a single mother but her father was murdered when she was a child so not really the fault of the mother. Her life was an uphill battle. She hid under tables during school just to be able to stay in the classroom and get an education (her mother could only afford 5 of the 10 dollars they required to send a kid to school). She worked with her mother in the fields during the day to earn enough money to go to school during the winters, her aunts and uncles taunted and ridiculed her to drop out and work full time on the farm.

This isn't the fairy tale they sell women in the West. Survival/Success only comes through extreme preservence and hard work, a concept the 1st world will never fully grasp.

OP if you want to date a girl and act on your white knight instincts, go to the 3rd world and help pull a woman up from the ashes. You'll never know true gratitude until you leave the bubble.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

My wife actually came from a single mother but her father was murdered when she was a child so not really the fault of the mother. Her life was an uphill battle. She hid under tables during school just to be able to stay in the classroom and get an education (her mother could only afford 5 of the 10 dollars they required to send a kid to school). She worked with her mother in the fields during the day to earn enough money to go to school during the winters, her aunts and uncles taunted and ridiculed her to drop out and work full time on the farm.

This isn't the fairy tale they sell women in the West. Survival/Success only comes through extreme preservence and hard work, a concept the 1st world will never fully grasp.

OP if you want to date a girl and act on your white knight instincts, go to the 3rd world and help pull a woman up from the ashes. You'll never know true gratitude until you leave the bubble.

So you'd literally live like a king for pulling one of these up from the ashes?

 

[CuddleJunkie]

My wife actually came from a single mother but her father was murdered when she was a child so not really the fault of the mother. Her life was an uphill battle. She hid under tables during school just to be able to stay in the classroom and get an education (her mother could only afford 5 of the 10 dollars they required to send a kid to school). She worked with her mother in the fields during the day to earn enough money to go to school during the winters, her aunts and uncles taunted and ridiculed her to drop out and work full time on the farm.

This isn't the fairy tale they sell women in the West. Survival/Success only comes through extreme preservence and hard work, a concept the 1st world will never fully grasp.

OP if you want to date a girl and act on your white knight instincts, go to the 3rd world and help pull a woman up from the ashes. You'll never know true gratitude until you leave the bubble.

woah LiveFreeX. How did you meet your wife if you don't mind me asking. Also, I've heard that these women divorce their husbands when they get to the 1st world, what do you think about that? I've always find interesting this kind of relationships because they are extremly shamed around here, but I don't see anything wrong with them

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I read LiveFreeX's story again. It looks like the conditions and the culture of his wife make her respect and appreciate a man who is willing to do what he's done for her. Had she been in America she still may have been corrupted with those conditions and thought every man owes her something.