How to get out of a relationship early.

[SleepnZJ]

I have been a long time lurker on this forum and have really enjoyed reading all the tips and info you guys post from day to day.

A little info about me, I'm 29, have been out of a serious relationship for the last 2 years and since then I have been having fun casually dating and honing my DJ skills.

The problem I am having now is that I am not sure how to get out of relationships with a woman early. For instance right now I have a FB on the side which is working out great. I don't know her last name, she comes over, great sex then she leaves with a "I'll talk to you later". On the other hand I met a girl on match, she's 35, divorced her husband of 11 years in April. On our first meet we went out to dinner then back to her place for good sex. Since then I have only seen her one other time.

Yesterday I finally got the green light from a chick that I have been looking to hook up with for a while (She's 26), we dated for a little and the she just stopped calling me as much so I just stopped calling her. I got a e-mail from her yesterday asking if we could start dating again so I told her that I was busy but would get back to her. She basically gave me her entire schedule for the week and told me to just give her a few hours notice.

Now I am by no means a master at all this so I don't think I can juggle 3 women at once. How do you DJ's get out of a early relationship like the one I am in with the 35 year old. I like to avoid problems as much as possible. Granted I think the 35 year old just wants to bang since she has been with the same guy for 11 years and has only slept with one guy since her divorce. The only thing that worries me is that she text messages me about once a day, calling me cutie and saying how she just finished masturbating about me.

 

[azanon]

You mean other than "I don't think we should see each other anymore"?

You're not married right? Married cheaters are the only one who have an actual "craft" involved with getting rid of lovers.

Single people? Be gentle and use the statement above. Or be an a$$ if you want. In either event, nothing is at stake so why do you even care? If you go with the latter, make sure your deductibles on your auto policy are low thought.

I recommended in another thread recently that your #1 priority should be #1. You wouldn't even be asking this if you followed that like I do.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Personally, I'd hold off breaking off things and slowly integrate the 26 year old into the fold. A yellow flag is that she's popped back in and wants you to change your livelihood (date only her) right off the bat. What if you do and its readily apparent that things aren't working out? You'll have nothing. Take things slow and qualify the new girl before you decide to devote all your efforts toward her. Diversification is a good thing!

 

[azanon]

Personally, I'd hold off breaking off things and slowly integrate the 26 year old into the fold. A yellow flag is that she's popped back in and wants you to change your livelihood (date only her) right off the bat. What if you do and its readily apparent that things aren't working out? You'll have nothing. Take things slow and qualify the new girl before you decide to devote all your efforts toward her. Diversification is a good thing!