"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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there is this girl that i really like that i just started to talk to. I knew her since middle school but didnt talk to her. Now i got her screen name and started to talk to her on the internet and on the bus home from high school. If i were to walk by her she would say hi and smile at me. i can make her laugh and she knows im a good person and is going places. Lately she has been in a weird mood and im not sure why what do i do to keep this friendship going and develop it into something deeper. Should i ask about her personal life or is it to early and she will think im intruding or wierd. she hangs out with popular people who i dont really talk to because they have no personality but tthis girl does. what should i do?

thanks

srry for sucky type
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ask her for a number/date before its too late. I've been in that situation before and trust me your better off going with the do or die approach now instead of slowly developing onitis while the relationship dies. Give it a throw of the dice, and if you fail next her. If your afraid of losing her than you have to decide between a friend or a date. Once you do that the choice should be pretty clear what you have to do.
 
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make her laugh...a lot. then ask her out on a date.
 
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