“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how to get her to pay?

AceyR6

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I searched for it but couldn't find anything.
Been paying for this girl for the past 2 months or so. We were going to the movies and I told her that I got it THIS time as I took out my wallet. How can I get her to pay without seeming cheap? She knows I'm saving money for a snowboard, so I think I might work that it. Any good?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jake Steed

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You have to lay the ground work early on. If you pay for everything for the first 2-3 months, then turn around and start asking her to pay her own way, she is going to think you are cheap. However, if you'd have made it clear from the beginning that she was to pay her own way, then she'd have accepted it.

Tell her you are attracted to "independent" women who take care of themselves. Have conversations with her about money and tell her that you think women are "equal" and you respect women who don't expect to be paid for.

Another thing to consider is that *in the girl's mind*, when you pay, she considers it a date. But if you make her pay her own way, she will either think you are cheap or that you want to LJBF her ("friends" usually pay separately).

You can counter the LJBF thing by making out with her/having sex with her, so she is clear that you are "dating" her.

Jake
 

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When you pick her up for the date just tell her: "Hey Babe, I got it last time, it's your turn now." You've been paying for 2 months and it's bloody well time for her to pick up the tab! When I go out with a guy to the movies if he buys the tickets, I spring for the popcorn & sodas. He buys dinner one time, I get it the next. (sigh) Am I weird? Or are they just blood-sucking b!tches???
 

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Like steed said. Now you got to do some damage control.

Just become poor.

Take her out for dates that cost nothing. When she wants to go to a movie, just tell her you don't have any money. Same for dinner, etc. If she wants to be with you, then she'll start coughing up some money...If she doesn't...that's your next post...

Don't be a total cheapscape...she'll dump you...
 
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