How to get her on a date after number closing?

[AM349]

So after getting the number/instagram/snapchat.

What do you guys do afterwards to get her on a date?

Small talk and built rapport or directly ask for the date?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Find a YouTube channel with a coach you vibe with and go off that.

 

[NealIRC]

You don't need to date her if you are in msging with her. Spit game to her in msging so she wants to meet up with you.

 

[Gamisch]

@We_ArE_VeNOM ,mode 1 ?

 

[darksprezzatura]

1. Make a plan for yourself - rock climbing on Sunday? You got it

2. “There’s this really amazing rock climbing place I’m going at 3 pm on Sunday, feel free to come along.”

3. Anything other than an enthusiastic yes is a next.

4. Stay safe, wear protection.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

@We_ArE_VeNOM ,mode 1 ?

I can already tell dude ain't rocking with it.

It takes a different breed of a man to go M1.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

So after getting the number/instagram/snapchat.

What do you guys do afterwards to get her on a date?

Small talk and built rapport or directly ask for the date?

Exchange 3-4 messages and ask her out. Dont overthink

 

[AM349]

@We_ArE_VeNOM ,mode 1 ?

What is mode 1?

 

[Doctor Europeo]

What is mode 1?

You cold a approach, whip it out, and try to stick it in and make your sexual intentions clear.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

What is mode 1?

Let me ask you this...

If you ask her out on a date (that you will pay for) and she accepts, but at the end of the night you don't smash despite efforts to do so.

Would you feel like you wasted your time and money?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Skip the messaging. Ask her out.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

You cold a approach, whip it out, and try to stick it in and make your sexual intentions clear.

Pretty much, yeah.

 

[AM349]

Let me ask you this...

If you ask her out on a date (that you will pay for) and she accepts, but at the end of the night you don't smash despite efforts to do so.

Would you feel like you wasted your time and money?

Yes

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Yes

So why not see if you can smash, BEFORE you invest time & money?

That way, if she declines, at least you didn't waste time & money on her.

 

[SW15]

You ask for and arrange the date in-person, then collect the phone number.

There is no reason to have a woman's phone number without date plans in place.

 

[Foe]

Let me ask you this...

If you ask her out on a date (that you will pay for) and she accepts, but at the end of the night you don't smash despite efforts to do so.

Would you feel like you wasted your time and money?

No, dating is like fishing. Ask a fisherman if he wasted his time spending all day fishing and not catching anything his answer will be no. Ask a layman who fished all day and didnt catching anything and his answer will be yes.

The fisherman does it for the passion of the sport, knowing he will catch fish eventually as he has done before so he will do again. The guy whos passion is something else only sees the end result as the win rather then the process. The difference is the fisherman learns with every day of fishing where as the other guy just gives up.

Make dating the sport rather then the result and you wont worry about how much you spend on the bait.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

No, dating is like fishing. Ask a fisherman if he wasted his time spending all day fishing and not catching anything his answer will be no. Ask a layman who fished all day and didnt catching anything and his answer will be yes.

The fisherman does it for the passion of the sport, knowing he will catch fish eventually as he has done before so he will do again. The guy whos passion is something else only sees the end result as the win rather then the process. The difference is the fisherman learns with every day of fishing where as the other guy just gives up.

Make dating the sport rather then the result and you wont worry about how much you spend on the bait.

Hey, whatever rattles your chain.