"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AustinG

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me and this girl were both in love i was a bad boyfriend to her an i got oneitis. I want to get her back the donjuan way. she says she doesnt know if she loves me or not she needs her space. any answers?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think this is the only time your girl will give you good advice (that you should actually follow.) She's right, give her space. She will come running back to you eventually. It will drive her crazy knowing that you could fullyfunction without her. And if she doesn't, it's still a win. You just saved yourself a bunch of time, then you could move on to the next girl.
 
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