How to get girls to travel long distances to you

[animal crackers]

I keep meeting these girls at clubs and they all live a million miles away. I went out with a couple of them and i'm just way too lazy to drive an hour to meet some chick. So I need to structure good ways for girls to travel far to visit me.

This most recent girl is just so damn gorgeous otherwise I would just say forget it, but what we have been doing is just meeting at this one club on the weekend. She lives almost an hour and a half away, and I need to get her out here so we can be a little more private. It's just that all the day2's I usually do aren't really super exciting. I ask girls to play pool or smoke hookah, stuff like that. I guess I'm kinda looking for a cool reason for her to come visit.



animal crackers

 

[Life-Trainee]

My ex-gf traveled an hour to meet me ever since the 1st date, but she was very into me, and we met through friends.

I'd say try setting up something half-way for the first date? You'd have to create a LOT of compliance and value to get them travel to you I'd imagine.

 

[JC9]

I don't think the distance is too big of an issue. I've dated a few women who lived 45 or so miles from me and they would always drive up to me for whatever we were doing.

That being said, playing pool or smoking the hookah sound like boring activities. They make a decent secondary activity, but hit up the zoo or local fair/amusement park with your girl.

I try and make my dates things that neither my date or I would do normally. That way I have fun and get a new experience as does she, and better yet it is a shared experience.