"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how to get girls to chase you

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okay guys...i pretty much grew up as a quiet kid in a small school...good kid, smart, nice...all that fine and dandy stuf...i'm a senior now and i guess my soph year i was pretty much out of my shell and talking to chicks about pretty much anything and whatnot. I dont think i'm desperate when i'm talking to them, but it may come across that way. I'm also a pretty skinny guy so im not terribly attractive. Any tips?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Natural Vibe

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You won't get girls to chase you until you do some amazing internal changes.

You must BE the sh!t. You musn't think you are the sh!t. You must BE the man all woman want, not think you are.

Girls will chase you, but that comes with a very tight inner game. Good looks also help, but are not mandatory. If you're skinny, you know what to do (Gym). That will boost your inner game too.

Good inner game comes through pushing over your confort zone until you feel like crying and reaching a degree of indifference. Indifference = terribly attractive. You pass sh!t tests and demostrate high value.

You'll need to chase them before you're worth chasing. Forget everything you know, let go of all of your limitations and negative beliefs. Don't think. Just be.
 
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