"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How To Get Girls Talking About Sex

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For a change here’s a little fun piece of advice you could use as a ‘technique’.

I wondered about this for a long time. Guys always said to be sexual, and even to talk about sex. I thought, how do you do this? Especially considering its high school. Now I have found out that being sexual is more about body language, eye contact and KINO, I didn't worry about it. However now I have unintentionally discovered a way to get girls talking about sex, and used it a few times.

What you have to do is use a role play or other items to be talking about sex without actually using the words. Role plays are usually great in any case. The vibe has to be flirty and fun. A couple I used recently was using school stationary, I never have had pen and white out taken out of context so much before! Interesting thing is if you do this and get the girls in the mood they will do a lot of the work. It's fun, and as what we are talking about can easily be seen as something else (but clearly isn't) she won’t feel responsible or guilty. A easy one is to refer to you in the girl in third person. She says "Oh I hear she is great at making out" :p The other day I compared a girl to a cat and asked if she scratched or purred. “What do you like best?” “purring of course!” “oh I can purr for you ;)” After that I went into qualifying her by asking her what she is good at and using lots of push/pull.

This is just a little something for you to play with. I posted it because I wondered about this before, and even made a thread about it. It's great for making a fun sexual vibe, getting her in the mood and getting her to associate those feelings with you. What you use and how you get this stage is up to you. A lot of it is knowing how to be fun, random and funny. Deliberately misinterpret everything she says and frame it so that she is horny and wants you, in a fun way. Sexual innuendo is your best friend.

Happy sarging :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SinJester said:
Deliberately misinterpret everything she says and frame it so that she is horny and wants you, in a fun way.
haha sweeet, i've been doing this all along with my gf. Shes starting to make these jokes back to me now. ;)

Like this one time, I was giving her a present but she didn't know what it was.
She: "I probably won't like it since its you hehe! :p"
Me: "if you don't like it, i'll hit you over the head with it :D"
Me: "Do you want the hard end or the soft end?"
She: "I like it hard ;)"
Me: LMAO (I totally didn't see it coming) "Oh behave baby ;) " (austin powers)
She: "I'm trying, but I just can't resist!! :crackup:"


^^Is that what your talking about? Those kind of misinterpretations? Like puns?
I can think of a million other times that i've pulled something like that on her.
 

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great stuff, I like it. I'm often worried about being too sexual (a nasty habit that I'm working on). Especially for inexperienced guys, innuendos are also a great way to judge her comfort level. If you set her up and she goes along, you know she's comfortable (and thinking about sex;) )
 

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Noob I would refrase that to 'you don't NEED to talk about sexual topics'. If you aren't sexual you aren't going to get the girl to be. By being sexual a huge amount of it is kino (slowly esculating), then there's eye contact (starting deep into here eyes, traingular gazing) and then voice tone (slowing down and deepening your voice etc). You can do all that without talking about the actual comment, but you do need to do the things I mentioned at some time to esculate. Attraction comes before that.

Triple T that's exactly what I'm talking about! Nice work, it seems like you do it naturally. Good example :p Notice how much she plays along!

WalkingStick you will get there, I gave you advice in the thread you amde about that ;) If you are using innuendos she can't really blame you for it. A more advanced realization that if you a worried about being too sexual you are making yourself more likely to be to sexual. However I think the only way to get around that is experiance.
 

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dont use QUOTES from movies... the austin powers quote is a NO NO. whoever said to use that is a dork
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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verysuave said:
dont use QUOTES from movies... the austin powers quote is a NO NO. whoever said to use that is a dork
I think it was intended that she knew it was a movie quote.
 

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talking about sex allways ends up good.
majority of my conversations with girls ends up talking about something related to sex.

honestly, your chances of any action are increased if both of you are openly talking about it. Girls think alot, and thoughts of doing you are most likely running through her mind if you have already built rapport with her.

dont forget to mix in kino, flirting, and moving in for the kill.
chances are, you'll score. :up:
 

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verysuave said:
dont use QUOTES from movies... the austin powers quote is a NO NO. whoever said to use that is a dork
but it worked nicely:up: isn't that all that matters ???
 

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verysuave said:
dont use QUOTES from movies... the austin powers quote is a NO NO. whoever said to use that is a dork
haha she knew it was from the movie. I made the same impression as him too ;)

Okay another example:
Theres this store that makes Shakes (protien shakes, smoothies, etc.) and its called Booster Juice. BJ for short.

Well, I always pull something like this on her:
Me: Hey you wanna give me a BJ?
Her: WHAT!? (shes thinking blowj0b)
Me: A BJ
Her: Ewww your soo dirtyyy :p
Me: Whats wrong with a Booster Juice?
Her: Ohh..you were talking about a Booster Juice...
Me: Yea what were you....OMG ewww your soo dirrtyyy (mocking her) ;)
Her: No i'm not!! Your so mean (playfullly hits me)
Me: :nono: your sucha bad girl :D
Her: :p shaadup your tricking mee
Me: hehe ;)

it DRIVES HER NUTS!
 

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Triple T said:
haha she knew it was from the movie. I made the same impression as him too ;)

Okay another example:
Theres this store that makes Shakes (protien shakes, smoothies, etc.) and its called Booster Juice. BJ for short.

Well, I always pull something like this on her:
Me: Hey you wanna give me a BJ?
Her: WHAT!? (shes thinking blowj0b)
Me: A BJ
Her: Ewww your soo dirtyyy :p
Me: Whats wrong with a Booster Juice?
Her: Ohh..you were talking about a Booster Juice...
Me: Yea what were you....OMG ewww your soo dirrtyyy (mocking her) ;)
Her: No i'm not!! Your so mean (playfullly hits me)
Me: :nono: your sucha bad girl :D
Her: :p shaadup your tricking mee
Me: hehe ;)

it DRIVES HER NUTS!

haha, you got it :rockon:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Haha everyone should take a leaf out of Tripple T's book. His stuff is gold. Was the girl in your second post still your girlfriend? I love making girls claim that I'm talking about sex then saying I actually meant something different and framing them as naughty with dirty minds :p

For the record David DeAngelo reccomends movie quotes in his ****y Comedy DVD series because they are win/win/win. That's not a typo :p
 

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Yea shes my girlfriend.
I pull this on almost every girl I meet, but I can't seem to remember any really good ones.

It also gets them thinking about you.
The Booster Juice store is quite a popular franchise, so she'll see it in almost every mall. Then she'll just think of me and the BJ joke when she sees it. :cool:

And like you said in your first post, the couple with the pen and white out. Now everytime the girl sees a pen/white out she'll think of the guy and just think to herself ":rolleyes: ahh, I miss him."
 

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are there any more thing like what triple t said that you can say to lasses
 

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One of the things I like to do is when I'm talking to a girl and they start joking around like they can kick my ass or like they're a badass or something, I say "so now you're a hardass".

Usually they say yeah or something like that so then I say "well guess i'm just gonna have to figure out just how hard that ass is".

Works good lol, and usually that sets the convo.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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An easy way is 21 questions.By them accepting,they KNOW whats coming up and very quickly either you or them is gonna start it up.No limits pretty much aswell.

I say roleplaying is the best and most effective way though.
 
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