"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donnyjondeppjuando

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ANyone with any help?

I have a few questions?

DO girls base there descion as to who to rpely to and msg primarly based on looks?

For example a 5/10 guy that studies, dresses well, comes across decent, good job etc......

Versus

a 8/10 guy that doesnt have much to say or is ****y or works a labor job etc...

Will girls just mainly go for hot guy?

Therefore to write on profile about your interests and academic record is off no irrelevance unless you are good looking?

AS a guy myslef lol. I primarly look at pics to see girls that I like visually then read their profile. Do girls work the same way?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
ANyone with any help?

I have a few questions?

DO girls base there descion as to who to rpely to and msg primarly based on looks?

For example a 5/10 guy that studies, dresses well, comes across decent, good job etc......

Versus

a 8/10 guy that doesnt have much to say or is ****y or works a labor job etc...

Will girls just mainly go for hot guy?

Therefore to write on profile about your interests and academic record is off no irrelevance unless you are good looking?

AS a guy myslef lol. I primarly look at pics to see girls that I like visually then read their profile. Do girls work the same way?
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In my experience, looks matter more online than they do in the real world. This is because women have no way of knowing what kind of man you are without having to look at pictures and reading profiles. So to answer your question, they will go for hot guys more easily. But the hot guy also needs a well written profile to close the deal. So you need both. In my experience, it's better to meet women in the real world. Online dating consumes way too much time and maintenance.
 
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Not an on line guy but I would imagine she would go by with what she sees rather than who you are. she only sees pictures of you and what you say about yourself. if you are well established with lots of friends and you seem interesting then you should be ok.
 
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