"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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donnyjondeppjuando

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ANyone with any help?

I have a few questions?

DO girls base there descion as to who to rpely to and msg primarly based on looks?

For example a 5/10 guy that studies, dresses well, comes across decent, good job etc......

Versus

a 8/10 guy that doesnt have much to say or is ****y or works a labor job etc...

Will girls just mainly go for hot guy?

Therefore to write on profile about your interests and academic record is off no irrelevance unless you are good looking?

AS a guy myslef lol. I primarly look at pics to see girls that I like visually then read their profile. Do girls work the same way?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Matthew Lyon

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
ANyone with any help?

I have a few questions?

DO girls base there descion as to who to rpely to and msg primarly based on looks?

For example a 5/10 guy that studies, dresses well, comes across decent, good job etc......

Versus

a 8/10 guy that doesnt have much to say or is ****y or works a labor job etc...

Will girls just mainly go for hot guy?

Therefore to write on profile about your interests and academic record is off no irrelevance unless you are good looking?

AS a guy myslef lol. I primarly look at pics to see girls that I like visually then read their profile. Do girls work the same way?
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In my experience, looks matter more online than they do in the real world. This is because women have no way of knowing what kind of man you are without having to look at pictures and reading profiles. So to answer your question, they will go for hot guys more easily. But the hot guy also needs a well written profile to close the deal. So you need both. In my experience, it's better to meet women in the real world. Online dating consumes way too much time and maintenance.
 
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Not an on line guy but I would imagine she would go by with what she sees rather than who you are. she only sees pictures of you and what you say about yourself. if you are well established with lots of friends and you seem interesting then you should be ok.
 
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