How to get girls interested in me in a passive way?

Stephen89

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For most of my life I've had girls interested in me without me even talking to them since I feel I look decent. I go out with my friends often now and converse with females a lot that we come across and that has helped with my confidence and help my courage a bit since my friend shoots me down with in front of beautiful women "I'm intimidate of you guys because you're (those women) are good looking.". It's all light banter.

I'm 29 now.

I've read everything such as David Wygant, Paul Janka, MM, the Game, day game, 4 elements of game etc. MM is my preferred literature.

I use MM as my philosophy and psychology to be honest.

There is this one female, who may be attracted to looks who is 28. Yes she is pretty.

I was surprised she didn't even bother to look at me some time ago at a function or keep looking at me when I was sitting on the same long table as her but she was a couple of meters to my right. I surprised she didn't want to see "who is this guy about". Even at another time when I walked past her and didn't see her looking at me.

I was well dressed and looked nice.

I'll see her again at the sports matches in July and August.

However I think I have preselection because I know some of her male friends, even female friends.

So I'm not sure if this is the full summary of MM from order or if anyone can expand on the order since I work in systems:

-Survival and replication value
-Attraction switches (protector, provider, leader of men, loyal, humour)
-Preselection
-Dhv's
-Don't just sit there in one place or stand there, talk and socialise or else it lowers your value
-Cat string theory
-3 second rule
-Stimulate her emotions (be mysterious, intriguing, fascinating)
-Conversation
-Neg (different types)
-Lead
-Then at the latter stages do kino, push/pull etc
 
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I was surprised she didn't even bother to look at me some time ago at a function or keep looking at me when I was sitting on the same long table as her but she was a couple of meters to my right. I surprised she didn't want to see "who is this guy about". Even at another time when I walked past her and didn't see her looking at me.

I was well dressed and looked nice.

I'll see her again at the sports matches in July and August.
She sensed you are a bit of a narcisst probably and didn't like that so she ignored you or she liked what she saw but aforementioned.

Your post gave that narcisst vibe as you are interested in her because she wasn't interested in you that much.

Considering that you won't see her in the next 4 months, it's a knight-errant quest. Hamster is spinning in your head right now. Let him loose and forget about her.
 

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"Overthinking, overanalyzing, separates the body from the mind
Withering my intuition, missing opportunities
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"Overthinking, overanalyzing, separates the body from the mind
Withering my intuition, missing opportunities
and I must Feed my will to feel my moment
Drawing way outside the lines."

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Man....... awsome stuff cant wait for the next album.

Tool and APC are my all time fav
 

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