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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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basically was using dj tips at start of relationship and it went great.

Starting getting jealous/checking up on her etc and she has lost interest-

How can I use DJ tips to attract her back?

I realise I was on to a good thing before with this site´s advice so I want to know the techniques to try to attract her again. I know I can´t get her back out of pity etc and dont want to turn her off with needy messages etc
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Check out the "How to Handle being Dumped" link in my signature. I recommend reading the replies to the message too as others have posted some golden advice there.
 
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its def a tough order to get her back, not impossible though. its a common problem that i see with a lot of DJ's who are new to the game. they are good enough when first meeting the girl to win her over using all the tips and techniques. but after about 3 months, 2 things happen. first of all the honeymoon period is over. all the excitement of meeting someone new is over. 2nd the new DJ falls back into old AFC habits and the girls starts to second guess herself about being attracted to you in the first place.
 
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A DJ wouldn't want his ex back. Breakups occur for a reason.
 
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another_nice_guy said:
basically was using dj tips at start of relationship and it went great.

Starting getting jealous/checking up on her etc and she has lost interest-

How can I use DJ tips to attract her back?

I realise I was on to a good thing before with this site´s advice so I want to know the techniques to try to attract her again. I know I can´t get her back out of pity etc and dont want to turn her off with needy messages etc
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simple : you become the guy she fell for. that means not being insecure, giving her all the space in the world and realizing that the girl isn't your wife and not letting your emotions get involved. ive been through this situation and i turned it around but still it ended after a few more months. basically getting an ex back is fighting an uphill battle. but if you want to fight it then become the person she was attracted to.
 

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the best way to get back at an ex id dont care at all and move on.
 
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cheers for replies.

I was def guiilty of thinking "ok, DJ tips were fine at start but now I dont have to worry".

My female flatmate admitted that the whole Treat em mean, keep em keen does work and that I def shouldnt contact her as it gives her too much power.

Going to do my own thing and if she contacts I might give her 5 mins
 
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