"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to get everyone to like you!

naes420

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This is short and simple. Dont care about others opinions. If you are shy and quite and just stop caring people will look at you like your wierd for awhile. Yes they will. But after a longer time they will accept you. Just be loud, and crazy, do whatever you feel like.

This is how I act in a classroom setting, at the mall, everywhere, yes, some people stare and are like...****ING RETARRDDDD, but more otherwise I real in hot girls like im a magnet. I get laid plenty. Everyone likes me (for the most part). I've come into class with a juke box playing version7.0 dancing before, only positive reactions even from teachers.

The key is: Be loud, be rude sometimes, be unordinary, do retarded and unexpected things.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SinJester

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You do realize how hard this is going to be for the shy introvert types on here? Which I'm assuming is most people otherwise they probably wouldn't be here. If suddenly a normally quiet guy starts being loud and rude people are going to be like WTF for awhile. So you want to elaborate and give some more practicala advice?

Just tryin to help out ^^
 

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Yes, I was once quite, then I just grew balls and was like, **** WHAT THEY THINK. And I started doing whatever the hell entertained ME not them. Im happy as can be, everyone thought I was going mad at first, and now there is never a party I miss.
 

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The kind of attitude you don't want is the kind that puts people down to make yourself look better. Inner confidence as opposed to confidence derived from outside.
 

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lol one of my best mates is like this, he doesnt care and most people do like him but he has had 1 girl in 3 years i think it depends on how loud ur being u dont want to be obnoxious people will become sick of you, but you should speak your mind, be the alpha male and make your voice heard
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bling

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NOTE: This is not an excuse to be a douche, loud mouth annoying prick that everyone hates. It's funny when you do it every so often, it's quite annoying when it's not funny and you do it 2x a day.
 

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You can never get everyone to like you, there will always be someone who won't like you.
 

WaRpEd

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Lol naes420 i think you're meaning to say "quiet", instead of "quite"??

But yea guys, thats pretty much what happened to me. I was a very shy, introverted, kept to myself type of person. Then suddenly one day (not to long after discovering this site and many like it) I suddenly exploded and started becoming more talkative, cutting up, doing "retarded" things. Haven't looked back since. It's all about having fun!!

Try not to be disrespectful and rude however.
 
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