"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to get back a BPD ^^

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getting back to original question..."How to get back a BPD"?

why do you really want to? sex...ok the sex can be awesome but I think your deluding yourself if you think you can keep it at that, self harm, suicide do you want to get srapped up in that? its a possibility, also, if she wants a baby...you will find out after its conceived! you have been warned!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wow. If you're that much of aglutton for punishmetn I will tell you that to get a BPD back, all you need to do is walk away from them, wait for them to chase for a while, then give in. THEN, a month later when they realize they got you back, and they dump your ass , you can rinse and repeat.
 
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I don't understand why someone would want a bpd back. It's like finding joy in stabbing yourself with a knife.
 
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Heres what I sent. Amidoinitrite?

"Well I do sorta miss our times at your house and yea; got a girl in bed a with me a few days ago ;D didn't feel the same with her. maybe she was bad or it was more...?"
she didnt reply so I was like ****it i'll text her one last time
"If you cant be ****ed replying I cant be ****ed texting you. Maybe she was just bad at everything and needed lessons ;P no clue tbh. Enlighten me; whatya think?"

She replied with
"Lol Adam thats awesome, maybe she was a virgin"

So tempted to reply with "Are you ****ing retarded, did I mention a hymn?"
 
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Don't do it. The real way to work on your game is to get with a real woman. You already said she turned you AFC once, are you 100% sure this isn't the AFC voice inside of you talking right now? Saying "Hey, I can't find any girl right now to mess around with, maybe I should give this one another shot".

Thats only going to take you down the road you just got off of. You want experience? Go hit up some social gatherings and flirt with new girls. The hardest part is getting them anyways, keeping them is easy in comparison, it usually just involves not deviating from the behavior and attitude that won out in the first place.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BPD's will take you on an emotional roller coaster ride with them.

Usually the best thing about BPD's is the great sex.

The longer you stay with a BPD, the greater the chance that you will confuse your addiction to the great sex with her to be genuine feelings for her.

After the BPD has you in her vice grisp, will you really be able to walk away when you meet a high value woman? It's harder than you think. Trust me.

Sometimes you have to make your own mistakes to really learn from them.

Just make sure you don't knock her up and find yourself paying for that mistake for 18 years. I mean are you going to trust a BPD that she is actually on birth control. I guarantee you they will lie to you about it.
 
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lightofhatred said:
Heres what I sent. Amidoinitrite?

"Well I do sorta miss our times at your house and yea; got a girl in bed a with me a few days ago ;D didn't feel the same with her. maybe she was bad or it was more...?"
she didnt reply so I was like ****it i'll text her one last time
"If you cant be ****ed replying I cant be ****ed texting you. Maybe she was just bad at everything and needed lessons ;P no clue tbh. Enlighten me; whatya think?"

She replied with
"Lol Adam thats awesome, maybe she was a virgin"

So tempted to reply with "Are you ****ing retarded, did I mention a hymn?"
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urdoinitwrong

That reeked of forced jealousy seeking. Girls can not only see through that, but will immeditely go bang another gujy to do it back to you. FAIL.
 
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horaholic said:
urdoinitwrong

That reeked of forced jealousy seeking. Girls can not only see through that, but will immeditely go bang another gujy to do it back to you. FAIL.
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FML xD

I honestly wasn't trying to put our jealousy; I was trying to put out "sex was meaningful with her; she meant something more"

Oh well. **** happens.

@Donnie
Yeah; it's something to do. Right now my life consists of playing Starcraft II and texting sluts -__-' having a BPD slut on demand when i'm having a rage at Starcraft would be nice.
 
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Lol, thats a good life. I heard all the single player missions in Starcraft II are timed missions, is this true? I hate those!
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Yeah its a nice and relaxing life style ^.^
Don't really know, I only do league matches
I'm 90% sure only 2-3 outta 31 missions are timed tho >.<
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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