"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to get back a BPD ^^

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getting back to original question..."How to get back a BPD"?

why do you really want to? sex...ok the sex can be awesome but I think your deluding yourself if you think you can keep it at that, self harm, suicide do you want to get srapped up in that? its a possibility, also, if she wants a baby...you will find out after its conceived! you have been warned!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow. If you're that much of aglutton for punishmetn I will tell you that to get a BPD back, all you need to do is walk away from them, wait for them to chase for a while, then give in. THEN, a month later when they realize they got you back, and they dump your ass , you can rinse and repeat.
 
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I don't understand why someone would want a bpd back. It's like finding joy in stabbing yourself with a knife.
 
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Heres what I sent. Amidoinitrite?

"Well I do sorta miss our times at your house and yea; got a girl in bed a with me a few days ago ;D didn't feel the same with her. maybe she was bad or it was more...?"
she didnt reply so I was like ****it i'll text her one last time
"If you cant be ****ed replying I cant be ****ed texting you. Maybe she was just bad at everything and needed lessons ;P no clue tbh. Enlighten me; whatya think?"

She replied with
"Lol Adam thats awesome, maybe she was a virgin"

So tempted to reply with "Are you ****ing retarded, did I mention a hymn?"
 
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Don't do it. The real way to work on your game is to get with a real woman. You already said she turned you AFC once, are you 100% sure this isn't the AFC voice inside of you talking right now? Saying "Hey, I can't find any girl right now to mess around with, maybe I should give this one another shot".

Thats only going to take you down the road you just got off of. You want experience? Go hit up some social gatherings and flirt with new girls. The hardest part is getting them anyways, keeping them is easy in comparison, it usually just involves not deviating from the behavior and attitude that won out in the first place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BPD's will take you on an emotional roller coaster ride with them.

Usually the best thing about BPD's is the great sex.

The longer you stay with a BPD, the greater the chance that you will confuse your addiction to the great sex with her to be genuine feelings for her.

After the BPD has you in her vice grisp, will you really be able to walk away when you meet a high value woman? It's harder than you think. Trust me.

Sometimes you have to make your own mistakes to really learn from them.

Just make sure you don't knock her up and find yourself paying for that mistake for 18 years. I mean are you going to trust a BPD that she is actually on birth control. I guarantee you they will lie to you about it.
 
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lightofhatred said:
Heres what I sent. Amidoinitrite?

"Well I do sorta miss our times at your house and yea; got a girl in bed a with me a few days ago ;D didn't feel the same with her. maybe she was bad or it was more...?"
she didnt reply so I was like ****it i'll text her one last time
"If you cant be ****ed replying I cant be ****ed texting you. Maybe she was just bad at everything and needed lessons ;P no clue tbh. Enlighten me; whatya think?"

She replied with
"Lol Adam thats awesome, maybe she was a virgin"

So tempted to reply with "Are you ****ing retarded, did I mention a hymn?"
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urdoinitwrong

That reeked of forced jealousy seeking. Girls can not only see through that, but will immeditely go bang another gujy to do it back to you. FAIL.
 
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horaholic said:
urdoinitwrong

That reeked of forced jealousy seeking. Girls can not only see through that, but will immeditely go bang another gujy to do it back to you. FAIL.
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FML xD

I honestly wasn't trying to put our jealousy; I was trying to put out "sex was meaningful with her; she meant something more"

Oh well. **** happens.

@Donnie
Yeah; it's something to do. Right now my life consists of playing Starcraft II and texting sluts -__-' having a BPD slut on demand when i'm having a rage at Starcraft would be nice.
 
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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Lol, thats a good life. I heard all the single player missions in Starcraft II are timed missions, is this true? I hate those!
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Yeah its a nice and relaxing life style ^.^
Don't really know, I only do league matches
I'm 90% sure only 2-3 outta 31 missions are timed tho >.<
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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