Hello fellas,
Today I want to go over lifestyle design or more specific gaining and maintaining mltrs
Some guys goals are snls while others want a long term girlfriend. My goal as are many of your reading this, we want multiple long term relationships.
Does that mean many girlfriends? Not really more like **** buddies that you hang with on a regular basis. As of today I have 3 solid women I hang with on a regular basis. 2-5 is a reasonable amount I had as many as 8 at one point but that’s over kill and it gets tiring trying to maintain all those women.
Mltrs on a level are a lifestyle choice. Just like having a large social circle or same night lays its a end goal. Now that doesn,t mean ur group of women can’t come from from snl or social circle , it just means we have to make an effort to see these women after sex has come about
The way I go about setting things up from approach to close doesn’t variety , I number close, set up a date, sex then decided if she is mltr worthy.
On the date is where I screen for compatibility. Instead of basic ” are u adventurous or spontaneous” type questions I screen them to see if they like doing the things that I like to do
For example
I love to play and watch basketball
I like to go to movies ( I am a movie buff)
I enjoy working out
I ask them if they like to do these things then share stories or facts with them sharing my interests with them allowing them to get to know me
it subtle but doing this sets up the dynamic of us doing any of these activities together which sets the stage for the mltr!
now some things i say when I am on the date with a women are:
“yea I am not into the whole merried thing”
or
“when I find that woman that makes me want to give up the game I’ll be happy to do so, but right now I am not looking for her”
or
“I am not a player I just go on alot of dates”
I am setting the frame for me not being ready to to settle down with one girl, but I am giving hints of being open to the idea. women are more then willing to stick around if there is hope of having what they want ( an LTR)
the hardest part about getting an mltr going is getting the girl to like you. for the most part game is simple in that re guard if your an get a date, she likes you from that point on its just a matter of you not putting your foot in your mouth.
keys to remember:
let her talk: to often guys get so focused on over talking, screen her, let her meet your standards by telling stories about her life. everyone likes what they have to work for, getting her to talk is great first step.
telling stories to set frames: setting frames is key and embedding them in stories is a great way to set frames. I tell stories about my jealous ex girl friend, I talk about my stripping for gas money in Orlando, or me skinny dipping at the beach after working out one night. telling stories about your life gives them a glimpse into your lifestyle.
honesty: in this life we dont need any more players. slide away from that label and be that guy who goes on alot of dates. if you are not looking for a gf then dont lead them into thinking that you are. if you just want sex then make sure its none that you fail as a bf.
a word on dating:
avoid boring ass dinner dates, going out should be fun, and sitting down chatting while it builds comfort its made boring. you can build just as much comfort by going out to the beach, the park, or the fair walking outside dates are far better imo anything you do you want to be poking, tickling picking up, joking not high energy but fun. you can go on dinner dates once you had sex and if you have not seen her for a while but other then that I would stick to adventure type dates.
juggling:
once you have more then one woman you are seeing on a regular, you may notice that you want to hang out with all of them, but as we all know there isnt more then a 24 hours in a day. so who do you choose to hang out with?
Each girl has things in common with you, in particular the activities you like to do. if you like watching scary movies then take the girl who likes scary movies? if you feel like playing basketball, then take the girl who likes playing basketball – you see the pattern?
I want to now include a lay report that is now an mltr
I hope this helped you guys.
peace
LR: the power of caking
Ok so before I get deep into this I want to bust some of the newer myths of pick since guys like adam lyons and brent have come round. While its not their fault that the dogma guys made their words laws its still a problem
1) You do not NEED a big social circle to get laid. Sure it helps to get introduced to other women, its not a needed occurrence
2) You don’t need social proof. Again it couldn’t hurt but game at its core is based on one on one interactions
3) Being social is the key to being lay.
No having balls gets you laid. a clown is social doesn’t mean he is getting his **** sucked. Being social is great go out and socialize, but putting your focus on being social you may end up a dancing monkey
Back to the LR:
So for the past few months (about 6) I have done away with phone game I found it life controlling, getting pone calls, calling girls, suck a cat and mouse. So I have been focusing on same day/night lays and texting . Its ok I have been getting decent to fair results but I have noticed that I have not been getting solid day 2s.my dates have gone down.since implanting this system.
Fast forward to now I went over some of my old reports( field reports gives you solid feed back on everything you need to know,no theory just experience) so I decided to give phone game a try.
Caking is a slang term for extended phone conversations and its been the backing for my good day 2s since as long as I can remember.
Keys to good “caking”
1) Treat it as a face to face interaction
2) Screen for compatibility
3) Don’t worry about the time ( in my case I can cake for hours on end)
Ok so I met this girl on face book. I got her number with “ you look like the adventurous type, give me your number “ it has worked more then once believe it or not. Anyway I get her number and shot her a text… ( this was before I made the choice to try phone game ie caking again) I got a reply I shot a ****y funny line no response… I text her once a day for three days straight no reply…. I loled at my stalker like behavior so I stopped texting her thinking it was just another dead in…
Fast forward to last night I say **** it a shoot a phone call over… she picks up whoa wasn’t expecting that
So we ended up “caking” for about 3 hours. I ended up liking her a lot and decided that I was gonna ask her out. of course she said yes. We made plans for tonight.
Now my date game as always been the same, boardwalk by the beach, ice cream, escalate. Pretty simple works like a charm. So we are at the board walk. I havn’t ran any routines other than Brad P ’s reckon yonder. ( she has a thick country accent)
I was just being ****y/funny/sexual I sat her down on the bench and told her “I loved her smile, and that if she didn’t stop looking at me like that I am gonna **** her their on the spot” I kissed her make out session
Fast forward we leave the beach cause “she isn’t a slut” so we go back to my house and do the dew no LMR in fact she lead the way – she came twice and said I was “the best ever” who knows if its tru but I am in my head lol
Recap:
Forget about about the standard of 10-15 min convos “cake” to get her comfortable with you.
****y/funny/sexual is the ish!
Reckon yonder is a pretty cool routine
tp
PS.
Bonus section: I want to go over approaching: lately i have been loving Paul Jankas – one minute movie trailer approach. a simple opener, introduction then time bride. I love its simple direct and to the point. you guys should look into testing it out.
Today I want to go over lifestyle design or more specific gaining and maintaining mltrs
Some guys goals are snls while others want a long term girlfriend. My goal as are many of your reading this, we want multiple long term relationships.
Does that mean many girlfriends? Not really more like **** buddies that you hang with on a regular basis. As of today I have 3 solid women I hang with on a regular basis. 2-5 is a reasonable amount I had as many as 8 at one point but that’s over kill and it gets tiring trying to maintain all those women.
Mltrs on a level are a lifestyle choice. Just like having a large social circle or same night lays its a end goal. Now that doesn,t mean ur group of women can’t come from from snl or social circle , it just means we have to make an effort to see these women after sex has come about
The way I go about setting things up from approach to close doesn’t variety , I number close, set up a date, sex then decided if she is mltr worthy.
On the date is where I screen for compatibility. Instead of basic ” are u adventurous or spontaneous” type questions I screen them to see if they like doing the things that I like to do
For example
I love to play and watch basketball
I like to go to movies ( I am a movie buff)
I enjoy working out
I ask them if they like to do these things then share stories or facts with them sharing my interests with them allowing them to get to know me
it subtle but doing this sets up the dynamic of us doing any of these activities together which sets the stage for the mltr!
now some things i say when I am on the date with a women are:
“yea I am not into the whole merried thing”
or
“when I find that woman that makes me want to give up the game I’ll be happy to do so, but right now I am not looking for her”
or
“I am not a player I just go on alot of dates”
I am setting the frame for me not being ready to to settle down with one girl, but I am giving hints of being open to the idea. women are more then willing to stick around if there is hope of having what they want ( an LTR)
the hardest part about getting an mltr going is getting the girl to like you. for the most part game is simple in that re guard if your an get a date, she likes you from that point on its just a matter of you not putting your foot in your mouth.
keys to remember:
let her talk: to often guys get so focused on over talking, screen her, let her meet your standards by telling stories about her life. everyone likes what they have to work for, getting her to talk is great first step.
telling stories to set frames: setting frames is key and embedding them in stories is a great way to set frames. I tell stories about my jealous ex girl friend, I talk about my stripping for gas money in Orlando, or me skinny dipping at the beach after working out one night. telling stories about your life gives them a glimpse into your lifestyle.
honesty: in this life we dont need any more players. slide away from that label and be that guy who goes on alot of dates. if you are not looking for a gf then dont lead them into thinking that you are. if you just want sex then make sure its none that you fail as a bf.
a word on dating:
avoid boring ass dinner dates, going out should be fun, and sitting down chatting while it builds comfort its made boring. you can build just as much comfort by going out to the beach, the park, or the fair walking outside dates are far better imo anything you do you want to be poking, tickling picking up, joking not high energy but fun. you can go on dinner dates once you had sex and if you have not seen her for a while but other then that I would stick to adventure type dates.
juggling:
once you have more then one woman you are seeing on a regular, you may notice that you want to hang out with all of them, but as we all know there isnt more then a 24 hours in a day. so who do you choose to hang out with?
Each girl has things in common with you, in particular the activities you like to do. if you like watching scary movies then take the girl who likes scary movies? if you feel like playing basketball, then take the girl who likes playing basketball – you see the pattern?
I want to now include a lay report that is now an mltr
I hope this helped you guys.
peace
LR: the power of caking
Ok so before I get deep into this I want to bust some of the newer myths of pick since guys like adam lyons and brent have come round. While its not their fault that the dogma guys made their words laws its still a problem
1) You do not NEED a big social circle to get laid. Sure it helps to get introduced to other women, its not a needed occurrence
2) You don’t need social proof. Again it couldn’t hurt but game at its core is based on one on one interactions
3) Being social is the key to being lay.
No having balls gets you laid. a clown is social doesn’t mean he is getting his **** sucked. Being social is great go out and socialize, but putting your focus on being social you may end up a dancing monkey
Back to the LR:
So for the past few months (about 6) I have done away with phone game I found it life controlling, getting pone calls, calling girls, suck a cat and mouse. So I have been focusing on same day/night lays and texting . Its ok I have been getting decent to fair results but I have noticed that I have not been getting solid day 2s.my dates have gone down.since implanting this system.
Fast forward to now I went over some of my old reports( field reports gives you solid feed back on everything you need to know,no theory just experience) so I decided to give phone game a try.
Caking is a slang term for extended phone conversations and its been the backing for my good day 2s since as long as I can remember.
Keys to good “caking”
1) Treat it as a face to face interaction
2) Screen for compatibility
3) Don’t worry about the time ( in my case I can cake for hours on end)
Ok so I met this girl on face book. I got her number with “ you look like the adventurous type, give me your number “ it has worked more then once believe it or not. Anyway I get her number and shot her a text… ( this was before I made the choice to try phone game ie caking again) I got a reply I shot a ****y funny line no response… I text her once a day for three days straight no reply…. I loled at my stalker like behavior so I stopped texting her thinking it was just another dead in…
Fast forward to last night I say **** it a shoot a phone call over… she picks up whoa wasn’t expecting that
So we ended up “caking” for about 3 hours. I ended up liking her a lot and decided that I was gonna ask her out. of course she said yes. We made plans for tonight.
Now my date game as always been the same, boardwalk by the beach, ice cream, escalate. Pretty simple works like a charm. So we are at the board walk. I havn’t ran any routines other than Brad P ’s reckon yonder. ( she has a thick country accent)
I was just being ****y/funny/sexual I sat her down on the bench and told her “I loved her smile, and that if she didn’t stop looking at me like that I am gonna **** her their on the spot” I kissed her make out session
Fast forward we leave the beach cause “she isn’t a slut” so we go back to my house and do the dew no LMR in fact she lead the way – she came twice and said I was “the best ever” who knows if its tru but I am in my head lol
Recap:
Forget about about the standard of 10-15 min convos “cake” to get her comfortable with you.
****y/funny/sexual is the ish!
Reckon yonder is a pretty cool routine
tp
PS.
Bonus section: I want to go over approaching: lately i have been loving Paul Jankas – one minute movie trailer approach. a simple opener, introduction then time bride. I love its simple direct and to the point. you guys should look into testing it out.
