"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get action the lazy man's way

whiskerbiskit

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there's the rub djdamage - your coworker friend is obviously not getting any benefit but i have to wnder whether he's the exception. is he paying the cuban girls or picking them up free? that's a big distnction. you don't learn game from a ho but you DO learn game from a freebie.

i don't care if he's there for a week or ten years. when you nail 10 after 10 after 10 your self esteem improves. so long, again, as you're not paying for it by the half hour ;-)

wb
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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afrojiggles

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just hop on plane to some desperate gals in africa somewhere along the beach towns as in mine who throw themselves at the white men and babes...nothign personal but here ur game wont work lest u try laying the hardocore whites or asians who are there,lol
 

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whiskerbiskit said:
i don't care if he's there for a week or ten years. when you nail 10 after 10 after 10 your self esteem improves. so long, again, as you're not paying for it by the half hour ;-)

wb
That and it resets the "value of pvssy" index for most guys. After a while they realize that women want the c0ck just as bad as we want what they've got. The power is there for the taking.
 

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I'm sorry but I think it's pretty lame to have to go to a third world country to get laid. I'm not saying I can get laid whenver I want to but if I put myself out there, and by there I mean near where I live, I will get laid and not have to fly ove the ocean to do it.
 

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Skel said:
I'm sorry but I think it's pretty lame to have to go to a third world country to get laid. I'm not saying I can get laid whenver I want to but if I put myself out there, and by there I mean near where I live, I will get laid and not have to fly ove the ocean to do it.

Yeah, I agree.. I know a dude that has gone to Brazil (Rio) a couple times and the girls just basically wait for the tourists and f*ck them all day and night for your entire vacation...all this for maybe 20-50 bucks! lol. He keeps saying how he has to get back down there.. I've seen pics and some are pretty hot and all but sh*t, it does nothing for me. I have zero desire to go down there and f*ck a bunch of hookers.. it really does nothing for me. :kick:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skel said:
I'm sorry but I think it's pretty lame to have to go to a third world country to get laid. I'm not saying I can get laid whenver I want to but if I put myself out there, and by there I mean near where I live, I will get laid and not have to fly ove the ocean to do it.


Well I feel if your going strictly to get laid, then yeah thats pretty stupid. I never been into fvcking hookers, and I will never fvck one. However if a guy wants to go to an exotic country such as brazil and fvck some girls (nonhookers), more power to him. There is nothing wrong with going to a 3rd world country and getting laid. As a matter of fact it would be a change from all the american woman we have fvcked.


I know if I was in another country I would want to get laid and so would you. I don't see anything wrong with it. Honestly- Why do most men go to miami- TO get laid. Why do most men go to vegas- to get laid.


We are men. Who the fvck cares if its lame or not.
 

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lookyoung said:
Well I feel if your going strictly to get laid, then yeah thats pretty stupid. I never been into fvcking hookers, and I will never fvck one. However if a guy wants to go to an exotic country such as brazil and fvck some girls (nonhookers), more power to him. There is nothing wrong with going to a 3rd world country and getting laid. As a matter of fact it would be a change from all the american woman we have fvcked.


I know if I was in another country I would want to get laid and so would you. I don't see anything wrong with it. Honestly- Why do most men go to miami- TO get laid. Why do most men go to vegas- to get laid.


We are men. Who the fvck cares if its lame or not.

Of course its nice to meet some random chick on your vaca and f*ck the sh*t out of her.. I was just talking about the girls that do it full time..(dirty hookers)
 

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Of course its nice to meet some random chick on your vaca and f*ck the sh*t out of her.. I was just talking about the girls that do it full time..(dirty hookers)
So basically you were just wandering off topic for your own amusement then?
 

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So basically you were just wandering off topic for your own amusement then?
Not really.. The thing is (speaking from a rio perspective), these girls come across like they like you and like your company.. they dont come across like hookers BUT they are. Its at the end when your about to leave is when they ask you for a few dollars..
 

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hookers will always be hookers.....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Its at the end when your about to leave is when they ask you for a few dollars..
Just like being married then. The original post is not about screwing hookers, and the OP has actually explicitly differentiated hookers from what he's talking about.

Unless you think all women in poor countries are wh0res.

Women everywhere gravitate to men who can take care of them, and money is one of the most concrete ways this is measured in today's society. It's a natural part of how they are wired and it's not a bad thing. It has helped ensure that your ancestors had descendants that (partly) lived.
 

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land ur a$$ in eastern europe and u cant play game just ur foreign status sells u like hot cake......see the *****es fight over u, men asking u to fvck their wives like some asked me tho' i freaked out on some as they wanted to be present i prefer doing stuffs on my own way.....take her where my heart is at peace and do my **** with her
 

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the world is ur urinal so act now !!!
 
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