tennisbuck12
Don Juan
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How do you pros do it?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to get a women to invest in you...
- Thread starter tennisbuck12
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
EyeBRollin
Master Don Juan
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Raising her interest level.
Sex is the biggest investment she can give, usually. Other than that, the more "effort" she puts into making you hers, the more she is investing in it. Time + Money + Emotions + Sex.
Sex is the biggest investment she can give, usually. Other than that, the more "effort" she puts into making you hers, the more she is investing in it. Time + Money + Emotions + Sex.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I agree. Sex is her affirmation in you as a man. But there are a whole bunches of acts of service she can do. Also does she come your way more or do you go her way more? Does she help you? The more invested she is the more EFFORT she will put into almost anything behind you, including sex.