tennisbuck12
Don Juan
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How do you pros do it?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to get a women to invest in you...
- Thread starter tennisbuck12
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
EyeBRollin
Master Don Juan
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Raising her interest level.
Sex is the biggest investment she can give, usually. Other than that, the more "effort" she puts into making you hers, the more she is investing in it. Time + Money + Emotions + Sex.
Sex is the biggest investment she can give, usually. Other than that, the more "effort" she puts into making you hers, the more she is investing in it. Time + Money + Emotions + Sex.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I agree. Sex is her affirmation in you as a man. But there are a whole bunches of acts of service she can do. Also does she come your way more or do you go her way more? Does she help you? The more invested she is the more EFFORT she will put into almost anything behind you, including sex.