"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to get a woman's phone number EASILY

Spartan301

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In the old west, he who had the slowest hands typically died.

It's obvious. Just imagine a old west quickdraw. Two people standing face to face, hands hovering over their guns. Then suddenly each gunfighter would quickly pull out their revolvers and BANG!

The quicker of the two would win, and the loser would fall to the ground, dead as dirt. The moral of the story, HE WHO HESITATES DIES.

What does this have to do with getting a girl's phone number. Simply, the quicker you are at getting the phone out and presenting it to her, without looking awkward and rushed about it, the easier it is to get her number.

Instead of drawing a gun to kill your opponent, what youre doing is drawing your phone to kill any chance of that awkward moment of you pulling out that phone. Just think. You have an I-phone buried securely in your pocket. So secure that it takes about 3 whole seconds of a wiggly dance just to fish it out, then 1-2 more seconds to unlock it, and one more second to get to the contacts touchscreen (and this is why i'm a blackberry loyalist, but I digress).

The quicker and smoother you make pulling out your phone, the more you reduce, if not eliminate, that awkward lag. One smooth way of drawing the phone is by having an excuse to have it out early.

"we should definitely go to the air and water show this weekend...wait, hold that thought. someone's calling me..." you pull out the phone, but as its out, unlock it and set the touch keypad out, "oops. I'm sorry. I thought I had a call..." conversation continues about dates and times, and when it's all squared away, without hesitation, you hold out your phone, keypad already set, and all she has to do is enter it in.

Quick, smooth, and simple. Try it, and let me know how it works out for ya.

Spartan, out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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"we should definitely go to the air and water show this weekend...wait, hold that thought. someone's calling me..." you pull out the phone, but as its out, unlock it and set the touch keypad out, "oops. I'm sorry. I thought I had a call..." conversation continues about dates and times, and when it's all squared away, without hesitation, you hold out your phone, keypad already set, and all she has to do is enter it in.
I've seen MeHow use a similar trick. He pretends to get a message, then is all "Oh, while I have my phone out, give me your number". I suppose it works fine, it just seems so fake and contrived to me. It even LOOKED contrived to me when I watched him do it on the video (I guess it's like watching a magic trick when you know the secret).

I'm not sure why you need all these buffers. Just pull your phone out and say "Hey, give me your number".
 
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