"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how to get a threesome

kiz

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i had two girls (HB6 and HB7) with very high IL's. we all got together drank and hung out last night, then went to a party. at the party i was grinding with HB7 for a while and hooking up, but then she left out of nowhere to go see some other guy. so i start dancing/grinding/hooking up with HB6. I tried to get HB7 to join us but she got all pissed off because they're good friends.


for a few minutes she didnt even want to HU anymore, but i was able to get over that. I realized the threesome wasnt going to happen, so i cut my losses and went back to HB7's dorm for some fun.

my question is what could i have done differently to make a 3some happen? I'm thinking i should have invited HB6 back with us to hang out and watch a flick ro whatever, and then try and go from there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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everywomanshero

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Im no expert...

I cannot answer your question because I have no real world experience with that situation, I'll save you the untested theory.

However, if you're just in search of a threesome I have a solution. In any large city there should be swingers clubs nad bars that are known for Lesbian/Bi clientelle. Sometimes it is difficult for single guys to get into these places, but worth the effort. Find a female friend to escort you, that's how I've done it. I don't know if you can simply bribe doormen or not.
 

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she got all pissed off because they're good friends.
I think thats where ur problem lies.... If you want a 3some, then I would reccomend you try do it with either 2 chick friends that are INTO that kinda stuff, or you do it with 2 chicks that arent friends. (they get jelous of each other) .... But the main thing, is that u need to find 2 chicks that would do it fullstop, from there u can plan on how to set it up etc.


Laterz...
 

kiz

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ummm. it was just sort of like a spur of the moment idea because i liked both girls and thought it'd be cool...a swingers club sounds a bit (okay totally) overboard, but thanks for the idea.

i didn't really put much thought into this whole thing. not even sure i'd know what to do with two girls at the same time LOL.
 

Climax

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Originally posted by kiz
not even sure i'd know what to do with two girls at the same time LOL.
There will always be a 1st :D


Laterz...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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everywomanshero

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OK if both girls want sex with you but not much into each other, then change condoms before you switch girls or she might freak.

Otherwise it should be pretty simple. Last time I was at the local swingers club (Ok next to last time(lol))one woman was on all fours on the floor with her man doing her doggie as she ate out another woman sitting in a chair. If you have access to a bed, you could do kind of the same but one girl lays down. Foreplay should be as standard but with a little help from the other female. Not so bad on the neck :)
 

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I read about the technique Style used in The Game. Invite both chicks for sensual massages and move on from there escalating massages to something more intimate.
 
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