I'm wondering how to get a threesome in general, but specifically I'm also wondering about this situation I have right now. Some of you may know about the 6/10 Colombian slüt I fücked once. (this is a small forum) I don't like her very much and she wants to meet me tomorrow she said. I'm thinking maybe this is my chance to ask her if she wants to have a threesome with another woman? Is it a good idea? I mean also since I don't care very much about losing her. I did this exact thing with another woman in December last year, told her to bring a female friend next time. She stopped replying a few days later, probably because I told her to bring a female friend. Tomorrow is Sunday though so there might not be that many clubs to go to to pick up a woman. And also I fapped yesterday so my libido and stamina might not be that great.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
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How to get a threesome?
- Thread starter edegoge
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
The girl needs to be open to it or you need to talk her into it over time. (to find this out, simply get her used to the idea of you asking her lots of questions that you find funny, sexy, weird or interesting, such as playing 20 questions or truth or dare with her often)
Easiest to find a girl who's open to it from the start, you may not even need alcohol for that
Second easiest to find a girl who has no strong opinion either way or hasn't thought about it, make her think about it in a positive light, then get her drunk and find another girl who's down
The hard option would be convincing a girl who is opposed to it or against the idea, whether because of jealousy, being too straight, thinking sex is 1 on 1 only, insecurity, bad past experiences, etc. With these girls talking her into it won't be all that effective but you should still try, see how her opinions differ while she's drunk or high and try to set it up so she just kind of stumbles into a threesome so she doesn't really have time to think logically and is roped into just trying it
If she strongly opposes threesomes for any reason you'll probably never get one out of her
Easiest to find a girl who's open to it from the start, you may not even need alcohol for that
Second easiest to find a girl who has no strong opinion either way or hasn't thought about it, make her think about it in a positive light, then get her drunk and find another girl who's down
The hard option would be convincing a girl who is opposed to it or against the idea, whether because of jealousy, being too straight, thinking sex is 1 on 1 only, insecurity, bad past experiences, etc. With these girls talking her into it won't be all that effective but you should still try, see how her opinions differ while she's drunk or high and try to set it up so she just kind of stumbles into a threesome so she doesn't really have time to think logically and is roped into just trying it
If she strongly opposes threesomes for any reason you'll probably never get one out of her
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Haha.
Good job. Keep trying, I'm sure you will land a few 3some.
There r some younger women open towards a 3some.
I'm thinking it's probably not a good idea to try to get a threesome with her if I meet her today because: A) I'm not very horny because I broke nofap multiple times this week. B) It's Sunday, so probably not many bars and clubs to go to. C) I don't know but it might not be that easy for me and a woman to pull an additional woman for a threesome, I've never tried, and this is probably the last time I can meet this woman if I do meet her, so it might be a waste of time.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Threesomes are usually not quick and easy to setup
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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