Learn how to talk to people and learn how to like it. That is the vast majority of game.
Start talking to your parents, family, friends, classmates, teachers and any human being you are in contact with.
Eventually you begin to see patterns and see how different people respond to different conversation topics or the tone of your voice. You hear stories learn how to tell your own, you learn social conventions on how to talk properly.
Start speaking to girls to, not only trying to fvck or date them but also just so you can have friends and know how to talk regularly with girls.
That’s all game is at the core. Being able to talk in, interact in and steer an interaction favorably and you can only do that through practice.
No matter how much you work out, do “no masturbation” (which I now think has benefits), read philosophy, or self-improve yourself it still always boils down to one limiting factor: how well you talk to people.
Coming from a former introvert, I found learning to be a social guy with people not just girls has helped my game than any other trick on planet.
No doubt a lot of advice tells you
“Use neg hits!” “Be ****y and funny” “The opener is amazing!” “This line will get you all the women’s numbers!” “Text her twice for every three texts she sends you!!!!!” and so on so forth.
And granted some of these may work. But memorizing these lines and trying to be good at game is like trying to learn a few lines of Italian and claiming to have mastered Italian. You need to build a solid foundation first, and once you have that everything else comes naturally. I don’t log onto Sosuave to ask what I should say to a girl, because from all of my experience, I can figure it out.
And you can too! Reading articles on Sosuave is no substitute for experience. So go out there and talk. Build connections (not just with girls), learn about people and in doing so learn a lot about yourself. You might find that you actually love talking to people.
Start talking to your parents, family, friends, classmates, teachers and any human being you are in contact with.
Eventually you begin to see patterns and see how different people respond to different conversation topics or the tone of your voice. You hear stories learn how to tell your own, you learn social conventions on how to talk properly.
Start speaking to girls to, not only trying to fvck or date them but also just so you can have friends and know how to talk regularly with girls.
That’s all game is at the core. Being able to talk in, interact in and steer an interaction favorably and you can only do that through practice.
No matter how much you work out, do “no masturbation” (which I now think has benefits), read philosophy, or self-improve yourself it still always boils down to one limiting factor: how well you talk to people.
Coming from a former introvert, I found learning to be a social guy with people not just girls has helped my game than any other trick on planet.
No doubt a lot of advice tells you
“Use neg hits!” “Be ****y and funny” “The opener is amazing!” “This line will get you all the women’s numbers!” “Text her twice for every three texts she sends you!!!!!” and so on so forth.
And granted some of these may work. But memorizing these lines and trying to be good at game is like trying to learn a few lines of Italian and claiming to have mastered Italian. You need to build a solid foundation first, and once you have that everything else comes naturally. I don’t log onto Sosuave to ask what I should say to a girl, because from all of my experience, I can figure it out.
And you can too! Reading articles on Sosuave is no substitute for experience. So go out there and talk. Build connections (not just with girls), learn about people and in doing so learn a lot about yourself. You might find that you actually love talking to people.
