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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sand

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need some advice on getting a girl's number. A few weeks ago I met this girl at a party but she passed out before i could even try to get her number but I would like to get to know her better. My friend knows her and i was wondering if it's ok to ask her if she could give me her number. is there another way i could go about getting it?
thanks
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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dont make the mistake of asking a friend for it....show her u hav the balls to ask for it....dont ask, command her to give it to u.
 

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"you seem cool, we should hang out sometime"

got that from the bodybuilding forums back in like 2003 and has never failed.
 

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Thanks! i'm going to ask my friend and see where it goes.
 

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synergy1 said:
"you seem cool, we should hang out sometime"

got that from the bodybuilding forums back in like 2003 and has never failed.
x2. It works every time. One girl even said thanks when I told her she was cool, lol.

No guarantee she will answer though, but that all depends on the impression you made with her.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yea man..its easy. Especially if you know her already. Just say "let me get your number, and maybe we can get together sometime." or something like that.

DONT ASK HER FRIEND FOR HER NUMBER..It's creepy. Unless you're in high school or something.
 

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synergy1 said:
"you seem cool, we should hang out sometime"

got that from the bodybuilding forums back in like 2003 and has never failed.
Just used this line on a chick 5 minutes ago. Shot the breeze for a few minutes, got a good vibe, saw she had dilated pupils, and used ^^^^^^^ word for word.

She said yes, I said "give me your number", she gave it to me, and I said I'd get contact her some time.

It's that easy.

Also, posture and eye contact help a lot.
 

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DonutMan, I would but the thing is that I never see her. I met her at a party that was in a city about 45 mins from where I live and all I know is that she goes to the local city college. That's why I was thinking about asking my friend for her number.
The advise was great because I never really know how to approach the whole number thing. When I do get numbers, the girl is the one implies that I should have it.
Thanks again!
 
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