“You never get a second chance to make a first impression”
Every girl has a b****y side of her personality, a nice and friendly side, an opportunistic side and a natural /sexual side. The frame that she will subconsciously choose for the interaction depends almost entirely on how you structure your approach, body language, conversational threads, etc.
First impressions always set the interaction in a certain frame, which will subconsciously elicit one of the following reactions from her:
FOYF ... F**k Off You Freak
This kind of response is triggered by nervousness or insecurity on your side.
LJBF ... Let’s Just Be Friends
This one is elicited when your approach is ok, but you fail to build attraction or if she is already in a strong and healthy relationship, where her emotional, intellectual and sexual need are fulfilled.
LMHW ... Let’s Make Him Wait
She is interested, but you fail to appeal to her natural/sex loving side and appeal to her
girlfriend side i.e. you treat her like a gentleman or you are not comfortable talking about
sex with her It’s also usually the case when you are interesting and entertaining and her
girlfriends like you, but you just didn’t stimulate her sexual side.
LFRN ... Let’s F**k Right Now
You appeal to the natural side of her personality by being masculine. This is the best way to describe it, as it includes being confident, not being needy, being direct and genuine, etc. All the girl-getting techniques like C&F, neg-hits, push/pull, etc stem from just being masculine.
It’s ten times easier to create a LFRN first impression than to change her attitude from FOYF to LFRN.
I will assume that most of the readers of this article will be interested in conveying the frame that elicits a LFRN response. How do I do it? Simple:
I have about 15-20 topics/subjects/lines prepared that proved to be successful before, that I can use in most situations, regardless of the circumstances. I’ll give some examples, but it’s important that you have your own lines that you are confident with and that proved to work for you before. Another key point is to talk slowly and loudly, which actually is a consequence of having confidence.
Notice how I mixed complimenting with C&F, neg-hits, role-reversal etc. It’s all about push and pull.
Open her:
* Shoot her! Not literally dude, just gesture with your hand as though you shoot her and then blow the smoke coming from the finger (big grin)
* “Hey looks like you’re really shy” (pause for effect) “I’ve been standing here for 5 minutes and you didn’t even say hi” (credit Mystery) (big grin) This one can also be used during day game – you accuse her of passing by you without even saying hi. She will probably say she doesn’t know you. You tell her “We can fix that” and continue with:
Building Attraction:
* “What’s your name? Wait don’t tell, you must be Emily/Jessica/Katie/etc” She will wonder why you thought so, but of course some things must remain a mystery.
* “Nice to meet you HB (gives hand) No I don’t do handshakes, give me the rock!” After she gives you the rock, continue with:
* “Oh, you have really short/long/thin fingers. Most guys prefer girls with short/long/thin fingers”
* Google “Ciaran Schock and Awe” and use some of his comments. They’re gold.
* It’s so sweet how your nose wiggles when you talk!
* Tell me something interesting about you. C’mon, you’re hot, but I’m sure there’s more to you than meets the eye!
*I have an intuition about you. Look me in the eyes... You have very sexy eyes... Can I touch them? (gesture with 2 fingers as though you want to touch her eyes)
* “Did you know that 93% of all women masturbate in the shower? The other 7% sing. Do you know what they sing?” She will probably say no. “Then you must be one of the 93%”.
*”If you could have one thing right here right now that would make you the happiest person in the world, what would it be? You can’t have me.”
* “Make me a compliment, I want to feel good (big grin). But please don’t tell me I can dance/am a good kisser because I heard that too often.” If she really makes me a compliment, make belief as you didn’t get it and tell her to repeat. Then say “Oh, I heard it the first time, it’s just I wanted to hear it twice.” If she refuses to compliment you or she makes an ironic comment, go “You really know how to make a girl feel special.”
* “On a scale from 1 to 10, how good of a liar are you? Here we go. Very simple. I’m gonna ask you 5 questions, nothing personal, just 5 questions, all you have to do is lie every single time. Ok? Think you can make it? Alright let’s see:
Me: What colour is your shirt?
HB: blabla
Me: What colour is your bra?
HB: blabla
Me: Ha ha, that’s just an excuse to look at your breasts, which are very nice by the way.
HB: Wtf?
Me: What colour is... let’s see... your shirt. Wait, did I ask you that already?
HB: Yep.
Me: Got you. Have you played this before?
HB: No
Me: Got you again.
HB: Lol
Me: The question about your bra was meant to distract your attention from the game. When I ask you that you’ll be thinking, OMG, is he hitting on me?
(credit: Lovedrop)
Of course I don’t just drop these lines out of nowhere, but let the convo take it’s natural course and when it fizzles out a bit, I start a new thread with one of these.
Now fellow DJs, let’s hear what other things you can say or do in order to trigger the LFRN response?
Every girl has a b****y side of her personality, a nice and friendly side, an opportunistic side and a natural /sexual side. The frame that she will subconsciously choose for the interaction depends almost entirely on how you structure your approach, body language, conversational threads, etc.
First impressions always set the interaction in a certain frame, which will subconsciously elicit one of the following reactions from her:
FOYF ... F**k Off You Freak
This kind of response is triggered by nervousness or insecurity on your side.
LJBF ... Let’s Just Be Friends
This one is elicited when your approach is ok, but you fail to build attraction or if she is already in a strong and healthy relationship, where her emotional, intellectual and sexual need are fulfilled.
LMHW ... Let’s Make Him Wait
She is interested, but you fail to appeal to her natural/sex loving side and appeal to her
girlfriend side i.e. you treat her like a gentleman or you are not comfortable talking about
sex with her It’s also usually the case when you are interesting and entertaining and her
girlfriends like you, but you just didn’t stimulate her sexual side.
LFRN ... Let’s F**k Right Now
You appeal to the natural side of her personality by being masculine. This is the best way to describe it, as it includes being confident, not being needy, being direct and genuine, etc. All the girl-getting techniques like C&F, neg-hits, push/pull, etc stem from just being masculine.
It’s ten times easier to create a LFRN first impression than to change her attitude from FOYF to LFRN.
I will assume that most of the readers of this article will be interested in conveying the frame that elicits a LFRN response. How do I do it? Simple:
I have about 15-20 topics/subjects/lines prepared that proved to be successful before, that I can use in most situations, regardless of the circumstances. I’ll give some examples, but it’s important that you have your own lines that you are confident with and that proved to work for you before. Another key point is to talk slowly and loudly, which actually is a consequence of having confidence.
Notice how I mixed complimenting with C&F, neg-hits, role-reversal etc. It’s all about push and pull.
Open her:
* Shoot her! Not literally dude, just gesture with your hand as though you shoot her and then blow the smoke coming from the finger (big grin)
* “Hey looks like you’re really shy” (pause for effect) “I’ve been standing here for 5 minutes and you didn’t even say hi” (credit Mystery) (big grin) This one can also be used during day game – you accuse her of passing by you without even saying hi. She will probably say she doesn’t know you. You tell her “We can fix that” and continue with:
Building Attraction:
* “What’s your name? Wait don’t tell, you must be Emily/Jessica/Katie/etc” She will wonder why you thought so, but of course some things must remain a mystery.
* “Nice to meet you HB (gives hand) No I don’t do handshakes, give me the rock!” After she gives you the rock, continue with:
* “Oh, you have really short/long/thin fingers. Most guys prefer girls with short/long/thin fingers”
* Google “Ciaran Schock and Awe” and use some of his comments. They’re gold.
* It’s so sweet how your nose wiggles when you talk!
* Tell me something interesting about you. C’mon, you’re hot, but I’m sure there’s more to you than meets the eye!
*I have an intuition about you. Look me in the eyes... You have very sexy eyes... Can I touch them? (gesture with 2 fingers as though you want to touch her eyes)
* “Did you know that 93% of all women masturbate in the shower? The other 7% sing. Do you know what they sing?” She will probably say no. “Then you must be one of the 93%”.
*”If you could have one thing right here right now that would make you the happiest person in the world, what would it be? You can’t have me.”
* “Make me a compliment, I want to feel good (big grin). But please don’t tell me I can dance/am a good kisser because I heard that too often.” If she really makes me a compliment, make belief as you didn’t get it and tell her to repeat. Then say “Oh, I heard it the first time, it’s just I wanted to hear it twice.” If she refuses to compliment you or she makes an ironic comment, go “You really know how to make a girl feel special.”
* “On a scale from 1 to 10, how good of a liar are you? Here we go. Very simple. I’m gonna ask you 5 questions, nothing personal, just 5 questions, all you have to do is lie every single time. Ok? Think you can make it? Alright let’s see:
Me: What colour is your shirt?
HB: blabla
Me: What colour is your bra?
HB: blabla
Me: Ha ha, that’s just an excuse to look at your breasts, which are very nice by the way.
HB: Wtf?
Me: What colour is... let’s see... your shirt. Wait, did I ask you that already?
HB: Yep.
Me: Got you. Have you played this before?
HB: No
Me: Got you again.
HB: Lol
Me: The question about your bra was meant to distract your attention from the game. When I ask you that you’ll be thinking, OMG, is he hitting on me?
(credit: Lovedrop)
Of course I don’t just drop these lines out of nowhere, but let the convo take it’s natural course and when it fizzles out a bit, I start a new thread with one of these.
Now fellow DJs, let’s hear what other things you can say or do in order to trigger the LFRN response?
