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How to get a kiss close in a club?

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Just curious as a lot of the time I manage to get the girl's number when really I want to end it with a kiss close I'm just not sure how to go about it.
A lot of the time the girl wants to dance but I don't do dancing :) so surely there is another way to do it?
 

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Originally posted by SteR
Just curious as a lot of the time I manage to get the girl's number when really I want to end it with a kiss close I'm just not sure how to go about it.
A lot of the time the girl wants to dance but I don't do dancing :) so surely there is another way to do it?
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Is there any easy way to get a kiss close WITHOUT first establishing any type of kino? What would make a woman want to without any? Learn to dance, it isn't that difficult.
 
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Ok but I seem to only chatup women at the bar in a club. My mate prefers to start dancing with women but I seem to feel it's real awkward. I dunno why but I just do.
And btw you can actually initiate kino when talking to girls at the bar or at least that's what I've always done and it seems to have gone down pretty well. I just seem to leave with numbers rather than actually going for the kiss close. It just seems that most of the time her friends are always in close proximity so she seems to be real self concious. I just wanna go to clubs and pull some girls and not have to worry about her worrying about her mates etc :p
 
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The easiest way:

Post QUESTIONS in the DISCUSSION FORUM and TIPS in... well, Tips. :p
 
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Other than friendly good bye kisses, I don't think you'll get much more without getting her physically excited. I don't think that will be an options since you've said that she seems self concious since her friends are around. Sounds like you need to get her away from her friends, possibly the dance floor would do :p .
 

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A lot of the time the girl wants to dance

Do girls say "Let's go dance" to you, or do they say "We are going to go dance"?

If it is the former, they want YOU to dance with them. This is effectively giving you a free licence to feel them up, kiss them, whatever if you play your cards right.

If it is the latter, then you are OUT.

Just curious as a lot of the time I manage to get the girl's number when really I want to end it with a kiss close I'm just not sure how to go about it.

How is your flake ratio?

The reason why I am asking is that if your flake ratio is low (ie: you are getting them to come out with you after you called them) then it is just a matter of pushing further.

Do what the others have suggested, and start kino early and just progress from there. Just before going for the kiss, talk about kissing.

Personally, I play thumb wrestling with the chick before I kiss them. I usually build up about how I am the thumb wrestling champion of the world and that I will not take it easy on her just because she is a girl. Usually she takes the bait.

I tell her that to make thiings much more exciting, the loser has to kiss the winner. If you have done your work in attracting and rapport, she will agree. If not, you know you still have work to do which usually involves me busting on her more.

If your flake ratio is high, then you should spend more time in attracting and rapport with the girl. This should take about 30 mintues. After that, just go for the kiss.
 
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The old rationale with kino is the act of elevating and making things seem normal. In other words if you met a girl and immediately went in for a kiss you might get slapped. But you can make it a natural progression. If you are touching her, talking very close to her lips and then you go for it, it will seem normal.
 
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i have had a few kiss closes at clubs but then again i dance when i go. if u learn how to dance and dance good, a chick will be dieing to kiss u while and after dancing. IMO
 
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Well I'm kinda new to this **** but every time I actually get in convo with a woman I manage to either get her number or kiss her. However recently all I've been getting is numbers and I really wanna end with a kiss close or a shag :). With the example I was giving though the girl actually asked me to go dance with her but I refused but I'll remember for next time...
And as for the kino I shall start initiating it earlier ;)
 
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