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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to get a hug in highschool

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Alright... I see certain guys hugging girls all the time in highschool... like when the guy is at his locker some girl just comes up and hugs him.

What should we say to girls to get them to hug us on a continuous basis?

Like..

"I missed you" *hug*
(but the above example is only a one-time thing)

Something else i use is... when some girl needs my help or gets me mad..
"Ok now you owe me... hmmm i know... a hug"

(the above example makes me sound kinda desperate and isn't making me the prize.. iono... do you guys have any ideas???)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok well I just give them a dirty look and and when the girl is mad at me or hit me I say "well I was going to give you a hug" and hug her.

The next time you see her just hug her.

Remember that you dont have to hug girls all the time. I do it unpredicabally. unpredicable like what I said above because she want expecting it. And if she tries to give you a hug say "YOu had enough for today" so it make her want it more.:D

Im so messed but what ever works.
 

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this one worked for me....

in a certain situation, just say something along the lines of being sad....naturally the girl will ask you if you want a hug....

depends on the girl though...
 

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This is what I do:

Whenever I say hi to a girl, I either put my arms out like reaching for a hug, or I stick my hand up for a high five.

Sometimes I combine the two. I do a pull back on the high five, and say "just messin" and go in for the hug.

Keep it up
Smooth
 

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HAHA thanks all... i realize that smooth player is a 100% DJ so ill try it out (cuz ive read ur HighSchool DJ posts before) so thanks guys.. ill try all of em... and probably try to master smooth players move lol.

If you guys have any other ideas feel free to add on
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i just do it naturally i dont even think of how i do it lol
 

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If you're going to hug, just hug. There shouldn't have to be a process to hug.
 

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Bro just do it randomly. I don't even hesitate I go straight in for a hug. No girl should resist a hug..and if one does, she is definantly NOT interested in you.
 

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If you have known the girl for a long time and never hugged them before, they might think it's a little weird.
 

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Well im only in gr 10... so hugging in my grade is still only beginning... like only a couple guys get hugs like daily

[But i prefer some lines like the first couple cuz theres less chance of awkwardness]

Cuz if i just go up and hug a girl.. rumours might start that i like her
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if there your friend or if their interested, the hugs just happen. Ive noticed that once i got a few friends that were girls that hugged me, i got into other groups of girls that stated huggin too. i say just go for it and get the ball rolling.
 

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hug when you introduce yourself or say hi. dont make a big event of it or act like it's important, just do it. then it'll become just that.
 

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
Well im only in gr 10... so hugging in my grade is still only beginning... like only a couple guys get hugs like daily

[But i prefer some lines like the first couple cuz theres less chance of awkwardness]

Cuz if i just go up and hug a girl.. rumours might start that i like her
Wow, that really sucks. I hug every girl I know. Last year, when I was in 10th grade I didn't really go out of my way to hug a girl unless they hugged me first but now I just hug all my female friends because it feels natural (even the ones that I have no interest in/find annoying yet they don't know it just so I don't make them feel bad). But if you hug a girl and people think that you like her then damn, you must be attending a school of prudes or something.
 

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i just hug girls without saying or doing anything. and seriously even tho a hug might not seem like much is very good kino.... girls need to be touched (kino works wonders), of course in the right way, and a hug, not everytime, but now and then, and then the regular following kino is the way to do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HAHAHAHHAHA ok well i got my second hug today... (first was from the example on my original post)

Ok so i did smoothe players suggestion lol... i put my hand up for a high five then she was hesitating and then she jus did it arubtly so i didnt pull back in time so

BASICALLY

she gave me a high five THEN i pulled bak (so im like o sh1t LOL what do i do now) so then i jus go in to hug her LMAO

from now on... ill try to just hug the girl and make it natural LOL

thanks for the replies... if anyone has any LINES or any other suggestions thad be great (cuz its also fun field testing the lines too haha)
 

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brooooooooo

this thread is LAME!

your whole method is to get hugs from women? :crackup:

For a moment I thought this was a forum for attracting and seducing women, not "how to be Ross from Friends".
 

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LOL @ this thread.

I thought people here were good with women and just wanted more...I guess I was wrong.

How to get hugs. :crackup:

Get some friends...
 

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
LOL @ this thread.

I thought people here were good with women and just wanted more...I guess I was wrong.

How to get hugs. :crackup:

Get some friends...
pwned...

look no hard feelings DVD. I see this is just a highschool forum so i'm not going to make an ass out of myself, but you're going down the WRONG ROAD, if you think gaming girls = being Gordo from Lizzie McGuire. I think you need to go back and read the DJ Bible.
 

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exactly i case you havent noticed were not all after pu$$y


.................... never mind forget i said that


i mean hugs are a way to stand out if ia girl sees you geting a hug
it could bring attention to you
and besides who dont like hugs
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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