"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How To Get A Grl To Forget Her Ex Love

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Hey hows it going everyone? I can see all you guys are pretty good at what you do, which I respect greatly. Well I’ve got myself sort of stuck in a situation where I can’t get myself out maybe someone can help me in here.

There’s this girl I truly and honestly like, she’s not a girl that I just want to sleep with and say **** of. She’s a great girl, lets just say she’s everything I’d want in my “dream” girl. I know her for 2 years now, and ive never made any move on her, even though she’s been giving me signals. Well reason for that is she still loves her ex, and a couple times ive told her I don’t want to talk to her, because of her indecisiveness and after 2 months we started talking again because of me. So now here I am her friend I think she still knows I like her and im pretty sure she likes me back, but she’s just way to confused about her past relationship, so here I am now how do i get her to forget her ex "love"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Him or you. Whatever. Let her burn in her past.
She’s a great girl, lets just say she’s everything I’d want in my “dream” girl.
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Bullllllshiit. Does your dream girl (not the girl you're yakking about) have any flaws? If you answer 'no' to that, then you'll never find a dream girl, because everyone has their flaws.

However, if you answer yes, what are your dream girl's flaws? Can't think of them? Whys that? Because you shoved that goddamn 'perfection' idea to make up this dream girl, and now you're taking a dream girl with flaws she has but you can't dream up because she wouldn't be perfect, and you're comparing that to this chick?

More so the reason where you can never find a dream girl, because no one is 'perfect'. Drop your ass off that pedistal you made for her, and grasp the concept of, there's a lot of women similar to her.
 
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DHV-demostrate higher value.........OR DO SOMETHING THAT ACTUALLY WORKS..........LIKE........................

Women are often reminded of thier EX's cause of materialistic objects that trigger emotion nuerons to fire within the persons memory traces.

Solution....GET RID OF ANYTHING that holds any setimental value.......throw it out, burn it, smash them. Out with the old in and with the new. Create NEW memories by losing the old stuff (rings, old ticket stubs, letters, her favorite tune, whatever causes her to think of her ex.........get RID OF IT.
 
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COD is right your only option is to burn her house down.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Docs said:
Him or you. Whatever. Let her burn in her past.
Bullllllshiit. Does your dream girl (not the girl you're yakking about) have any flaws? If you answer 'no' to that, then you'll never find a dream girl, because everyone has their flaws.

However, if you answer yes, what are your dream girl's flaws? Can't think of them? Whys that? Because you shoved that goddamn 'perfection' idea to make up this dream girl, and now you're taking a dream girl with flaws she has but you can't dream up because she wouldn't be perfect, and you're comparing that to this chick?

More so the reason where you can never find a dream girl, because no one is 'perfect'. Drop your ass off that pedistal you made for her, and grasp the concept of, there's a lot of women similar to her.
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Docs i really respect that thought because it is very true, and ive got her way to high right now, i mean how can i go abouts this how can i let her know that things are changed? should i make a move on her? or should i just entirely fuk her and treat her like every other *****?
 
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NEXT.

But, you're not going to listen to that. So, my advice would be, get her thinking about you. Find the threads on this subject (converting friends to GF), there are plenty.

rob23 said:
I know her for 2 years now, and ive never made any move on her, even though she’s been giving me signals. So now here I am her friend
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COD said:
DHV-demostrate higher value.........OR DO SOMETHING THAT ACTUALLY WORKS..........LIKE........................

Women are often reminded of thier EX's cause of materialistic objects that trigger emotion nuerons to fire within the persons memory traces.

Solution....GET RID OF ANYTHING that holds any setimental value.......throw it out, burn it, smash them. Out with the old in and with the new. Create NEW memories by losing the old stuff (rings, old ticket stubs, letters, her favorite tune, whatever causes her to think of her ex.........get RID OF IT.
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no see the thing is SHE owns things from her ex its not me man, i have nothin of her possession, and she has nothin of mine..... its not to say im in love her, just that im very picky with grls well at least grl friends lol and this grl im not saying is perfect but shes very down to earth and my "type" of grl.... and like docs said i have brought her on top of a pedestal that was my first mistake! the position that i feel like im in is, that i can only wait and see what happens, thats how i feel. but doesn't mean its right......
 
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On Point said:
NEXT.

But, you're not going to listen to that. So, my advice would be, get her thinking about you. Find the threads on this subject (converting friends to GF), there are plenty.
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yea where abouts do u find that?
 
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:nono: Beware of becoming the "rebound guy."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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go for the kiss
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Ha ha, yes, that is the best litmus test you can give her and either confirm everything you been saying about her liking you and giving you signals, or put your one-itis to rest. Best advice I've read on this post so far.
 
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giving her orgasm of her life would definitely work.
 
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well i been trying some ganji games on this grl, and its working but i mean don't get me wrong i aint crazy about her, but shes a nice grl can't lose them, but aint i ever givin up my hoes for her lol not at this age. but yea back to my ganji games with her, well i havn't talked to her for a couple days now, she msgs me on msn saying "where have :trouble: en loser :p" i wrote bak "busy with work and parying and u" i mean i can play any of these games on this site but this one i think ive fuked it up so much that theres not just one possible solution to getting her, i think i should just fukin man up and treat this grl like any other hoer and just lay a smack down on her cady ass !!! :trouble:
 
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