How To Get A Girls Number

[bachelor]

Whenever I want to get a really hot girls number, I never think too much about asking her. I’ll tell you a story about this girl I saw at the supermarket.

Me: ( I am in the produce section by the vegetables and this beautiful tan blonde is looking at the apples) I decide to walk by her and start the conversation not thinking about anything else..

Me: Hi, you look like you know your apples since you’ve been staring at them for a few minutes. Can you pick some out for me?

Her: (Surprised expression) Laughs… Sure how many do you want?

Me: Enough for me and you haha jk… how about five…

Her: She grabs the apples for me

Me: What’s your name ( Remember not to smile be James Bond Like)

Her: Christina

Me: Christina, you seem like a really nice person why don’t we go out for lunch sometime…. What’s your number? I pull out my cell phone..

Her: Leaves her number

Me: Thanks for the apples see ya later…

What I did in this interaction was set the frame by having her pick out the apple for me. Not only did I do that but I also helped create attraction by making her laugh. The key here is never to think about the situation and be bold. If you are nervous, the girl will usually lose attraction for you. You have to practice by approaching women on a regular basis to make it easier on yourself.

Your probably wondering about what I did on the follow up? I took her out to lunch then invited her out to a bar with some friends… We’ll talk about follow up next time.

 

[speakeasy]

Cool man. Quick thinking on the apples thing, that was a great situational opener. Are you usually good with coming up with situational openers on the spot?

 

[ChapStick]

Excellent stuff man! I'm impressed!

 

[warrior1]

hey do you have any other openers in other situations similar to this? This is pure gold.

 

[onyx]

I would have gone up to her and said, I wanna stuff one of those apples in your mouth and do you on a spit roast with my buddy

 

[Obsidian]

i like the "you seem like a pretty nice person" part; I'll have to remember to do that. Sounds like you're in the process of qualifying her, and not just based on her looks.

 

[int3l]

isn't this stuff all common sense? ... i'm sorry but it's like you want to learn how to talk normally.

 

[bachelor]

Cool man. Quick thinking on the apples thing, that was a great situational opener. Are you usually good with coming up with situational openers on the spot?

Yeah, I practice situational openers all the time... The way I see it is girls are so used to men approaching them so I like to be different and put it into situation. The key to situational openers is to think on the spot and be real to the situation.

 

[bachelor]

hey do you have any other openers in other situations similar to this? This is pure gold.

Let's say I'm in class I always like to sit next to the hottest girl... Ill joke with them and say is this seat taken and before they say anything I say I didnt think so with a grin on my face... The girls eat this one alive... At the end of class I'll be like lets hang out sometime and we can discuss the class material haha jp... Whats ur number... A few days later ill call em and invite them out to lunch or something... If u have any specific questions about a situation you could be in, I'd be happy to help!

 

[warrior1]

wow your pretty good at this. Do you have one for a train approach that works weell?

 

[bachelor]

Lets say your in the train and you make eye contact with a really hot girl... Comment about the weather outside or comment asking where shes headin too... Strike casual convo and then before you or her are about to get off be like hey, whats your number we should hang out sometime... If the convo went well on the train, she'll more than likely give u her number... Call her a few days later and set up a date... Remember to add some humor here and there throughout the convo.

Heres some more tips:

I like to comment on a girls jewelry... "Thats a nice bracelet your wearing..."

Small talk: What do you do for fun, where are you from, are you in school, the small talk can create more room to conversate as well

Framing: While your interacting, your setting the tone of the conversation... Your asking the questions and taking control of whats going on around you... If there's someone who looks kinda funny, or is doing something weird comment on it haha...


I got a blog too where I talk more in depth about the material

 

[sandman6991]

I like this...because anyone with a good wit can pull anything like this off.

One guy said how it's basically just how you learn to talk...that's really all picking-up women (the conversational part of it) is

It's about having a good time yourself...and then iniviting the girl to share in that good time with you

 

[lyamdb]

Its ok if a talented guy makes a living out of demonstrating his skills and teaching others. But there's a whole group of guys who have just memorized the literature and get money for repeating them. And their magical trick that actually lures everyone is that when they're giving their field reports, its always like that no matter what they said, they always get good responses from the girl. Watch this:

Me:What is it with the weather today its so hot.
HB99:Yeah its killing me too.
Me:[With a very playful tone of voice] Hey, are you a jealous girl?
Her:[Smiling] What?!
Me:We're going to the beach tomorrow with a group of friends, why don't you join us? I just wanted to make sure first that you won't start a fight with the girls cuz they're all hot like yourself.
Her:[Laughing her stomach out] Sure! gimme a call!
etc...

Guys, its so easy to write this way. Always look what's so special about the conversation. Is there really some skill and experience displayed? I mean, is the guy really a pro? Or its just that the girl is being nice for no reason?

 

[bachelor]

Its ok if a talented guy makes a living out of demonstrating his skills and teaching others. But there's a whole group of guys who have just memorized the literature and get money for repeating them. And their magical trick that actually lures everyone is that when they're giving their field reports, its always like that no matter what they said, they always get good responses from the girl. Watch this:

Me:What is it with the weather today its so hot.
HB99:Yeah its killing me too.
Me:[With a very playful tone of voice] Hey, are you a jealous girl?
Her:[Smiling] What?!
Me:We're going to the beach tomorrow with a group of friends, why don't you join us? I just wanted to make sure first that you won't start a fight with the girls cuz they're all hot like yourself.
Her:[Laughing her stomach out] Sure! gimme a call!
etc...

Guys, its so easy to write this way. Always look what's so special about the conversation. Is there really some skill and experience displayed? I mean, is the guy really a pro? Or its just that the girl is being nice for no reason?

Why do u have to hate on my blog? I never said I was a pro man Im just giving people good advice. So why don't you do me a favor and stop hating on everyone who is actually helping others out.

 

[warrior1]

hey bachelor have you tried this approach on the train before?

 

[bachelor]

hey bachelor have you tried this approach on the train before?

No, I havent really ridden trains, but I was throwing you a situation and how I would deal with it.There was this one time I rode a greyhound when I was 18 and this girl was trippin on X the guy on the bus which was older was trying to hook me up with her lol... She was actually pretty cute so I played it cool. I asked her to sit with me in the bus and we ended up hooking up all night. She was driving cross country so I dont know how the rest of her trip went. Im sure you can have fun meeting girls in trains haha..

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Not a bad approach... but you kinda dorked out with "enough for me and you.." line. That's pretty weak. But overall it worked.