"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to get a girlfriend for a person who has never had one?

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crackers444

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I am wondering what are the best ways of getting a girlfriend? I am a 24 year old male, good looking, intelligent. I am very shy when it comes to girls. I have never had a girlfriend, but I have been on dates, if that's what they were. I felt very ackward and didn't have much fun when I met girls in person. I use the dating site plentyoffish in hopes of finding a girlfriend, but it hasn't happened yet. I have been site for almost 4 years. I don't drink or go to bars, and not into sports, which makes it difficult when conversing with a female in person. When a girls asks me what my interests are, I find it hard to think of things to say. The girls are here are very s***** and immature! It's real hard to find a decent one! I rely on internet too much in hopes of find my dream girl! It really bugs me going on facebook, and seeing people in relationships! I wonder when I'm ever gone be in one? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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download the Foundations my real social dynamics
 
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I'm in the same position as you. I've always been very social however. Drinking, going to bars or sports, do all that stuff, but haven't picked up women from it.

Just approach thats the important thing, never met as many women as I have this year. Apparently it's that simple..

If you've noticed that you have no hobbies or passions in life, why would a girl want you? It's a competitive world, better yourself and women are inevitable. Would you like to talk to a woman with no interests in life - pretty boring?
 
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For one thing, be less picky. You're searching the internet to find your dream girl?

Man, the odds of your first girlfriend being the perfect girl for you are slim to none. Also yeah, get some hobbies.
 
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Bob 2007 nails it...You invest none in yourself....what do you expect in return?

Wish more guys like you so there is more girls for us...

Stop whining..and sit on your ass..

You already know what to do.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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