"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to get a girlfriend for a person who has never had one?

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I am wondering what are the best ways of getting a girlfriend? I am a 24 year old male, good looking, intelligent. I am very shy when it comes to girls. I have never had a girlfriend, but I have been on dates, if that's what they were. I felt very ackward and didn't have much fun when I met girls in person. I use the dating site plentyoffish in hopes of finding a girlfriend, but it hasn't happened yet. I have been site for almost 4 years. I don't drink or go to bars, and not into sports, which makes it difficult when conversing with a female in person. When a girls asks me what my interests are, I find it hard to think of things to say. The girls are here are very s***** and immature! It's real hard to find a decent one! I rely on internet too much in hopes of find my dream girl! It really bugs me going on facebook, and seeing people in relationships! I wonder when I'm ever gone be in one? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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download the Foundations my real social dynamics
 
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I'm in the same position as you. I've always been very social however. Drinking, going to bars or sports, do all that stuff, but haven't picked up women from it.

Just approach thats the important thing, never met as many women as I have this year. Apparently it's that simple..

If you've noticed that you have no hobbies or passions in life, why would a girl want you? It's a competitive world, better yourself and women are inevitable. Would you like to talk to a woman with no interests in life - pretty boring?
 
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For one thing, be less picky. You're searching the internet to find your dream girl?

Man, the odds of your first girlfriend being the perfect girl for you are slim to none. Also yeah, get some hobbies.
 
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Bob 2007 nails it...You invest none in yourself....what do you expect in return?

Wish more guys like you so there is more girls for us...

Stop whining..and sit on your ass..

You already know what to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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