"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how to get a girl while she is at work?

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at mcdonalds, there is this girl i seen working the cash a few times, she always laughs at some things i dont even think are too funny but everyone seems to thing everything i say its too funny. and i can tell its a real laugh, not just one of those canned laughs.

so how do you get a girls number while she is working? im a total noob at this, so any advice would be appericated:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Master Cheif said:
at mcdonalds, there is this girl i seen working the cash a few times, she always laughs at some things i dont even think are too funny but everyone seems to thing everything i say its too funny. and i can tell its a real laugh, not just one of those canned laughs.

so how do you get a girls number while she is working? im a total noob at this, so any advice would be appericated:D
Never picked up a girl at a McD's before...but I have done so in similar situations (tellers at banks, supermarkets so on)

Make sure kino is there. Then just ask her when she gets off work. I find this approach better because they can get in trouble for flirting on the job. Tell her you would like to get drinks or coffee or whatever. No dinner. Too serious and it will be hard for you to have an exit plan if needed.

You wont even have to call for the date.

Good luck.
 

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Don't pick up women at work. They just want to get there on time, avoid being fired, avoid being yelled at by customers, then go home. They don't want shmucks hitting on them while they're trying to do their jobs. Leave 'em alone. Especially in this economic climate where everybody is on the edge of being laid-off anyway.
 

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Zarky said:
Don't pick up women at work. They just want to get there on time, avoid being fired, avoid being yelled at by customers, then go home. They don't want shmucks hitting on them while they're trying to do their jobs. Leave 'em alone. Especially in this economic climate where everybody is on the edge of being laid-off anyway.
What lame advice. I pick up waitresses and other girls at restaurants pretty regularly. Smile at them, talk to them, tease them. They like it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zarky said:
They like the tip and the attention, and that's about it. Leave 'em alone.
No. You have no idea. This is not good advice.

I got 3 girls from one burger place that is set up like a diner where you order at the counter and they bring it to you, and you do not even tip them there. Also got 3 waitresses from an italian place I used to go to a lot, and they obviously do take tips. It is stupid to limit yourself.

Also got a girl from a pizza place I go to, and I had her write her number on the pizza box. And there was a hostess from another place, etc.
 

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brekke said:
No. You have no idea. This is not good advice.

I got 3 girls from one burger place that is set up like a diner where you order at the counter and they bring it to you, and you do not even tip them there. Also got 3 waitresses from an italian place I used to go to a lot, and they obviously do take tips. It is stupid to limit yourself.

Also got a girl from a pizza place I go to, and I had her write her number on the pizza box. And there was a hostess from another place, etc.
so if i ask a girl for her number like there would she get in trouble for that? because obviously i wouldnt want that.
 

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Master Cheif said:
at mcdonalds, there is this girl i seen working the cash a few times, she always laughs at some things i dont even think are too funny but everyone seems to thing everything i say its too funny. and i can tell its a real laugh, not just one of those canned laughs.

so how do you get a girls number while she is working? im a total noob at this, so any advice would be appericated:D
and i wonder how many other guys are thinking this about her!

more detail needed, how much does she recognise you, how happy is she to see you, doe she rush over to say hi, how many IOI's??
 

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so if i ask a girl for her number like there would she get in trouble for that? because obviously i wouldnt want that.
No, she won't, but kingsam's thing above is right. And if she is interested she will not care if she gets in trouble (and I really do not care). Some of these girls would give me free food with their boss there, and I think they could get in more trouble for that. Just make sure you can tell if she is interested.

I think canned stuff is lame, but for an example, I joked with one girl that she might actually look pretty if she took her hat off (that they make her wear), and her friend there said "hey that's mean, she always looks pretty". Just say what comes to your mind I guess, and do not be afraid to hit on her.
 

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kingsam said:
and i wonder how many other guys are thinking this about her!

more detail needed, how much does she recognise you, how happy is she to see you, doe she rush over to say hi, how many IOI's??
well, i guess were gonna find out:D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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