"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to get a girl to call you using c/f or other..

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So heres the story guys I have been using this board and its content for some time. I have improved my overall game because of this board and its members so I just wanted to say thank you.

I have been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now and have already gotten with her if that helps anyone answer this question. I only call her once a week, im trying to stick to the 3 to 1 ratio of phone calls. She works 6 days a week so I know she is busy but she doesnt call when she says she is going to but I dont relate that to low interest but rather her being busy. Anyways my question is are there any lines to get her to call me more often? Something c/f or anything else

An example I got off a friend would be something like
"You know Its ok if you call me sometime. In fact im giving you permission to call me. Im a busy guy but I dont mind."

Something along those lines
Thanks for all the help guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thats a good question.

Just dont make it sound like you need her to call you more than she needs you to call her. Make sure you're the one with the higher value. Some how you have to get the message to her that she's a flake.

Maybe freeze her out a little? I'm not too sure.

I'd like to hear some other people's input too
 
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Embrace said:
Thats a good question.

Just dont make it sound like you need her to call you more than she needs you to call her. Make sure you're the one with the higher value. Some how you have to get the message to her that she's a flake.

Maybe freeze her out a little? I'm not too sure.

I'd like to hear some other people's input too
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Thats exactly it. Right now my value is definitly higher than hers. Iv been doing alot of negging and getting the "why do you make fun of me so much", with the playfull punch in the arm. She is also aware that im seeing other girls as well as her. But im not sure how to tell her that its ok that she can call me in a ****y way. I think she thinks that I am too busy for her because she will always make comments about how much I have going on in my life.

and yes, in reply to angeluspua, yes that is also an option on the table

anyone else?
thanks guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Embrace said:
Yeah man why dont you just stop calling her completley. Go after the other chicks and she'll chase you if she wants you
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Thats what I would do but I also work with the girl, so I will eventually see her. Thats why I was looking for some way to convey that she could call me but still retaining higher value and to not seem like I care.

Thanks
 
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